I expect to get some hate on this one. I’m putting this out there because if you actually take the blinders off and have a look for yourself — you can. You don’t need to listen to me. Go look for yourself. Open up ChatGPT and say, “This is what I believe because of Red Pill — prove me wrong.” Read More

Is the Red Pill Actually Helping You… or Just Making You Bitter? Let’s talk about some of the most popular claims from the red pill/manosphere world, and see how they stack up against reality. Not to dunk on anyone, but to offer some perspective—especially if you’ve been following this stuff and it’s not getting you the results you want. Claim Read More

The Hidden Value of Envy Envy and jealousy are emotions we don’t like to admit to. It feels petty, uncomfortable, and even shameful. But recently, I had an interesting coaching session that revealed a hidden value in envy—if you know how to interpret it correctly. One of my clients has been considering a career change for a while but has Read More

I think one of the reasons we have so much drama around the terms masculinity and femininity is because of the old school dictionary definition of those terms, which basically state masculine means traits exclusive to men, feminine means traits exclusive to women. These are nonsense definitions. There’s no such thing as a trait that only men do, or all Read More

Steelman Let’s start with a steelman here (support the argument for Mens Rights Advocates): why do MRA’s exist in the first place, and what are their intentions (or at least what were the intentions of the original MRA’s)? In many western countries, particularly in the USA, Canada and UK, men have a hard time in the Family Court system. Women Read More

Want FREE ACCESS to my $200 Nice Guy Recovery online training course? Just fill out this quick 5min survey and I’ll send you access immediately!     There’s a tragic thing that used to happen in our Brojo groups all the time, we’d be working with a guy helping them to become more honest and bold, and stop being so needy and so Read More

Want FREE ACCESS to my $200 Nice Guy Recovery online training course? Just fill out this quick 5min survey and I’ll send you access immediately!     Decision making is hard. Trying to figure out the right thing to do is probably the most difficult thing a human ever faces. And the main issue is we think too short term and we think Read More

To become more powerful in your masculinity, contact me for coaching dan@brojo.org The word “masculine” has been defined as traits characteristic of males. Not only does this vague definition leave way too much room for the “woke” movement to start weaponising the word (e.g. making being male look toxic), but it’s impractical and senseless. Men can be both masculine and Read More

Get my Shamelessness course on Udemy to become a confident beast today The term “toxic masculinity” was original devised by a men’s advocate group to describe the way men are raised with a skewed, macho, harmful version of what it means to be a man. However, as a term toxic masculinity has since come to basically mean that it’s bad Read More

This modern term completely baffles me. To me, the term “toxic masculinity” sounds no less confusing than “toxic health” or “toxic sunlight” or “toxic love”. These things are innately healthy and helpful, and if toxicity is present then these things are not. Today I’ll be making the case to state you’re either being masculine or you’re being toxic, but you Read More

Today I’d like to address something dark and miserable: New Zealand’s horrific suicide rates, particularly among young men. New Zealand is in the top 15 of the OECD for suicides per capita. In particular, we have horrific rates for males aged 20 to 24 and for both genders in their middle age. In the year from 2017 to 2018 we Read More

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