The 3 “Selfish” Motivations that Control Our Decisions

KEY POINTS – best way to understand people and respond effectively is to correctly guess their motives – today, we talk about the 3 motives everyone has – each person has a primary that helps you understand them – despite many people claiming altruism, i firmly believe it’s a myth and that all actions are self-serving, but it doesn’t matter Read More

How to Build Discipline and Self-Control

You can have great ideas and insights about who you are supposed to be, but in the end it will come down to how consistent your behaviour becomes when trying to make positive changes. That consistency is all about self-control; aka discipline. Most people think that motivation and discipline is something natural – you either have it or you don’t. Read More

Letting Go of Outcomes vs. Giving Up Completely

Watch the video above or read the transcript below Is letting go of outcomes the same thing is giving up completely? No, it’s not. Ah, thanks for reading. Okay, so previous content of mine about letting go of outcomes confused some people. Maybe I wasn’t quite clear. People got the message that letting go of outcomes – letting go of Read More

The Difference: Procrastination v Laziness

Watch the video above, or read the transcript below Today I want to talk about the concept of being lazy. Sometimes we like to think of it as procrastinating: constantly putting off something. Other times it’s more like an absence of motivation; an apathy about the task, an inability to get up and do it. However you define laziness, what Read More

Negative Motivation: How to Use Frustration, Guilt and Fear

Watch the video above, or read the written version below Most people think of motivation as a positive feeling – e.g. inspiration, excitement, passion – but unfortunately, they’re wrong. Today we’re going to talk about the secret to motivation, an understanding that will help push you forward and do all those things that you’ve always been meaning to do but Read More

The Secret to Success

Watch the video above or read the transcript below What’s the difference between people who make their dreams come true, and those who don’t? Only a small portion of people out there are living their ideal life and being the ideal person they’ve always wanted to be. They’re confident and full of integrity, and their lifestyle reflects that. They get Read More

7 Steps to Stop Procrastinating

Maybe you think of yourself as a lazy person. You’re constantly procrastinating on important (and difficult) tasks you should try to complete. Don’t worry, it’s just a mindset issue. Overcoming procrastination is as simple as following the 7 steps in the video above.


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