What is Sexual Shame and How to Know if You Have It

This is an excerpt from my  course: Shamelessness: Develop Unbreakable Social Confidence Sexual shame is possibly the number one cause of psychological suffering in the world. Everyone feels like they can’t talk about it, as if they’re the only ones. And yet after more than a decade coaching, I can confirm that nearly everyone I have spoken to has strong Read More

Is porn really THAT bad for you?

Join The Integrity Army for free group coaching here You might have heard a lot about the negative effects porn and frequent masturbation can have on your brain and your social skills, killing your love life. But what about just a little bit of the bad stuff now and then, is it really so bad? In this video we answer Read More

My husband stopped initiating after rejection

I was looking at my website stats and noticed that this search term kept bringing people to my website (frustrated wives and girlfriends I’m assuming): “husband stopped initiating after rejection” This leads them to a popular post I wrote many years ago entitled “Why your boyfriend doesn’t initiate sex”. While I still believe this article covers the issue of Nice Read More

To the partners of men with erectile dysfunction

Hi ladies (or gay dudes), hopefully I have some information that might put your mind at ease and help repair the bedroom issues in your relationship. I’ve been coaching men since 2013, particularly people pleasers and Nice Guys, and many of them suffer from erectile dysfunction (ED), sometimes referred to as “performance anxiety”. I quite pride myself on being one Read More

[Short] The obvious reason why Nice Guys suffer from perfomance anxiety and ED

Wanna escape Nice Guy Syndrome and become a confident authentic man? Take my social confidence quiz now to receive free advanced content >> Click Here to Take The Quiz Today! Comment below with your opinions on this!   Here’s something you probably don’t want to know about me: in my twenties I suffered a lot from erectile dysfunction. Now, this Read More

[Short] Why Nice Guy husbands stop initiating sex

Wanna escape Nice Guy Syndrome and become a confident authentic man? Take my social confidence quiz now to receive free advanced content: Comment below with your opinions on this!   For many years, the joke was always that married men at least had to beg for sex from their partners. All the sitcoms always used to make jokes about Read More

How to tackle sexual performance anxiety

Get coaching by getting in touch Performance anxiety in the bedroom is very common for Nice Guys and people pleasers. In this livestream, I tackle how to overcome erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, inability to orgasm, and all the other anxiety related issues men experience in the bedroom. Dan’s Top Resources Books Dan has 3 bestselling non-fiction books available in Read More

Are You Obsessed with Sex? You may have an addiction

Today we’re going to be talking about sex and love. This question has come through to me many times: “Why am I so obsessed with getting laid? Am I addicted to sex?” This dilemma manifests in all sorts of different problems, like you struggle to express attraction because sex is such a big deal to you and you’re afraid of Read More

Should I text him first? Relationship advice for the hookup culture

Today I’m going to be answering a question from the audience. I got an email from a young woman who’s just lost her virginity to a guy and they don’t have any sort of established label on their relationship. She wants to know what I think she should do about her current dilemma. She says “I need advice, I don’t Read More


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