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[Short] The secret reason why Nice Guys are so JUDGMENTAL

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[Short] The terrifying Nice Guy fear that no one needs you

If you enjoyed this video, you can buy me a beer to support my work! Do me a favour! Like/dislike, comment and share on YouTube to help promote my work (if you think it’s a good idea) If you enjoyed this video, you can buy me a beer to support my work! For more of my work, links, posts and Read More

The Shocking True Story of How I Became A Nice Guy… and How I Recovered

In an effort to rolemodel the value of shamelessness, I’ve created this mini-autobiography highlighting some of the key moments in my life that caused me to develop Nice Guy Syndrome, and then later to recover from it through discovering authentic self confidence. I explore – my early school experiences with bullying and ostracism – the effects of strict parenting – Read More

10 Childhood Traumas that cause Nice Guy Syndrome

Being a nice guy is actually a form of mental illness. It’s the result of coping mechanisms we created in childhood and teen years to deal with traumatic events and painful situations. When good-hearted boys are faced with emotional harm and lack the tools to properly process, confront and deal with it, we come with an act: a way of Read More

Matthew Perry’s truth: Could Chandler Bing BE any more of a Nice Guy?

Matthew Perry’s new autobiography Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing is an eye-opening read. More than anything else, it gives an insight into Nice Guy Syndrome from an extreme level; that of the highly successful Performer Type of Nice Guy. Despite getting all the fame, love and wealth he could ever wish for, Perry still turned to drugs and Read More

Nice Guy RAGE: The darkness behind people-pleasing

Nice Guys appear to be happy and cool and even confident from the outside, but inside they are a psychological disaster just waiting to happen; a ticking time-bomb of boiling rage. People-pleasers build up so much resentment and frustration from a lifetime of trying to make other people like them and create a smooth problem-free life that eventually it turns Read More

Am I too sensitive or am I being abused by a narcissist?

Build your confidence and connections with my Powerful Honesty course  Nice Guys and people-pleasers are afraid of conflict and confrontation, and so are much more sensitive to anger, assertiveness, drama, arguments, and negative feedback, than other people. It makes it hard to know if we’re dealing with a genuine narcissist, bully or toxic person, or whether we’re just overreacting to Read More

Respect: For Nice Guys in Long Term Relationships

WATCH THE VIDEO ABOVE FOR A SHORT OVERVIEW OF THE RESPECT PROGRAM Okay, here’s the down low…. In August/September 2022, I’m getting a carefully selected crew of awesome men together to show them exactly how to respect themselves, assert their boundaries, and build better relationships through increased self-confidence. I’m going to help them develop the confidence they need to stand Read More

“Do I look fat?” – how to answer this impossible question [livestream]

For more livestream action on dating, relationships and Nice Guy Syndrome, come and join the Nice Guy Husband community here https://www.facebook.com/groups/niceguys Dan’s Top Resources Books Dan has 3 bestselling non-fiction books available in both written and audio form: The Naked Truth, his latest release, shows you how radical honesty builds self-confidence and relationships Nothing to Lose explores how to build Read More

Livestream: My friendzone nightmares

A look back at one of the many times I got “trapped in the friendzone” and what I learned from the experience. Come and check out the Nice Guy Facebook Group for more livestream action!

Livestream: My life as a Nice Guy

A deep-dive revealing exploration of my history as a Nice Guy. Join the Nice Guy Group on Facebook to get access to more livestreams like this

Highlights of the Week

Each week, I’ll repost my most popular social media posts in one place, for… reasons. I dunno. Just don’t wanna waste them or something. Enjoy. Or don’t. I’m so tired. On staying silent… Nice Guys tend to avoid conflict, and our favourite method for doing this is to stay silent when we disagree with something (depending on the audience). We Read More

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