NICE GUY RECOVERY
Hi, I’m Dan Munro, bestselling Author and Confidence Coach.
I specialize in helping good people like you to become more socially confident and authentic.
NICE GUY RECOVERY
Hi, I’m Dan Munro, bestselling Author and Confidence Coach.
I specialize in helping good people like you to become more socially confident and authentic.
RECLAIM YOUR CONFIDENCE NOW!
3x your confidence and integrity.
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TRANSFORM FROM PEOPLE PLEASER
TO GENEROUSLY CONFIDENT LEADER
- Build the courage to stand up for yourself and go for what you want.
- Develop the skills to create new social opportunities and have fun while making new friends and a fulfilling love life.
- Let go, finally, of caring what others think of you, and just enjoy being YOU.
INTRODUCING A NEW SCHOOL OF THOUGHT…
LIVING WITH INTEGRITY
Your entire life you’ve been trained to believe that you should be chasing external achievements like money, popularity, sex, power and status. You tried to please your parents as a kid, you tried to please your teachers as a student. Nowadays, you try to please your friends, partners, bosses and society in general.
How’s that working out for you?
I want you to reclaim responsibility for your life.
Integrity is about doing what is RIGHT rather than what is EASY or what is EXPECTED. Deep down, you have core values guiding you on the right way to live, and integrity means living by them consistently.
I want you to learn how to be genuine and fearlessly honest, without worrying what others think. I want you to find that perfect balance of confident and caring. I want to you impress yourself with courage. I want you to take care of yourself and others in a genuinely compassionate way.
I want you to figure out who you really are.
If you want to feel proud of yourself, and free from the anxiety and worry of trying to please others, it’s time to explore a whole new perspective on the “right” way to live.
Create an Authentic Lifestyle and Career.
Instead of wasting your time for a paycheck, you can create a lifestyle and career that you’re truly passionate about. I will show you how to remove your limiting beliefs and shame so that you know exactly what it means to be ‘yourself’ – without all that performance.
Together, we will discover which core values you want to live by, and how they translate into activities, work and hobbies. You can reduce feelings of guilt, regret and disappointment about your life, by living with more honesty, decisiveness and courage.
Create Deep and Meaningful Social Connections.
Most of our fears are socially based. Instead of chasing approval, sex and status, you could be creating genuine and meaningful connections with other people, through becoming a powerful social leader who never compromises their integrity.
Instead of trying to make people like you, you can learn to express yourself honestly, to attract people who are the right fit for you, and push away those who would bring you down.
A whole new world of friends, dating, connection and social fun awaits you! Imagine having the confidence to be yourself without having to worry what others think. It can be done!
It’s Time to End Self-Sabotage.
This website is full of blog posts, videos and podcast episodes showing you how to apply the concept of integrity to your own life, from Overcoming Limiting Beliefs and Shame, to Creating Meaningful Connections through Honesty and SO much more!
Plus you get direct access to me personally and others, for support, feedback and tips along the way.
It’s Time to Give Your Life Meaning.
Through becoming self-confident and creating an authentic lifestyle you will discover what we are all looking for: MEANING.
When you understand what it means to live by your values, and you let go of the restrictions that shame and limiting-beliefs place on you, you will start to understand WHY you are alive. That is the ultimate source of quality satisfaction.
The fact is that deep-down you already know what is important, meaningful and good by your own standards, but it is covered in fear, expectations and societal pressure.
I’m here to help you remove those unhelpful barriers.
“I can’t wait to help you figure out who you REALLY are!”
Dan Munro
Confidence Coach, bestselling author and founder of The Brojo
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WHO IS DAN MUNRO?
In my early childhood I developed a people-pleasing persona, commonly referred to as Nice Guy Syndrome. Small events that I misunderstood led me to create a massive fear of rejection and abandonment. I was simply terrified of being disliked and had a crippling fear of confrontation.
In my teens years this mutated into consistent approval seeking behaviour. I would pretend to be whatever it was I thought others wanted me to be – funny, smart, sensitive – whatever each person liked the most.
I became hypersensitive to the reactions of others, and could always keep people calm, entertained and agreeable. People getting emotional would concern me and I always tried to “fix” it.
In my early 20s this started to frustrate the hell outta me! Night after night I lay awake wondering why I couldn’t just be honest and real with people. If someone was angry at me, or disappointed, it would ruin my week.
My connections with people were mostly superficial, because the guy they thought they liked didn’t actually exist. He was just a mask I wore to hide my weaknesses and negative emotions.
This affect me most with women. I worshiped them, particularly if they were attractive, and did everything I could to make them think of me as a good person, even if it meant being completely fake.
By the age of 24 I decided that I couldn’t live like this any more. I didn’t know what was wrong, but I knew I didn’t like the way my life was going. It was EXHAUSTING trying to please everyone. I just wanted a rest.
The results astonished me. While some people hated the new me (which hurt but didn’t kill me), others it turned out really loved me. And the more authentic I became, the better my life got. I soon realised that authenticity required that I pursue my passions and dreams as well. It wasn’t good enough to be a social leader, I also had to start my own business, take care of my health, and master my hobbies.
I was desperate for change, and this lead me to go through a brief phase of becoming a Pick Up Artist – learning how to exploit people’s psychological weaknesses to make them like me. But this made me feel manipulative and I could see that I was hurting people’s feelings. It was just WRONG.
Over time I realised that my problem was low self confidence. A lifetime of being fake had ingrained in me the belief that THE REAL ME was not worthy of being known by people. So slowly, in small steps, I started releasing him out into the wild.
I started being more honest, more courageous, more respectful of myself, and less fake about why I was doing things.
I combined the tools and psychological strategies I used to rehabilitate criminal offenders with Stoicism, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) principles and other philosophies like Taoism.
I researched the most confident socialites, artists and leaders to uncover how they were different. I became an expert in Nice Guy Syndrome, confidence-building, self-acceptance development, defusion techniques and learning principles.
I used all of this on myself to build massive self-confidence, and then I started coaching others with what I had learned.
I’ve reverse-engineered the path I took to figure out how it works. I’ve learned how to build confidence, and can now take others through that process in just a few months.
Through my coaching, books, podcast, YouTube videos and blog posts I’ve been sharing what I’ve learned ever since.
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