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At BROJO, we’ve been talking a lot about the views, perspectives and beliefs that men have about woman, and how this affects our interactions and our relationships. We’ve identified that many, if not most men, have at least a few very unhelpful beliefs that get in the way of them creating loving and meaningful connections with women.
When it comes to finding out where some of these unhelpful beliefs come from, we need look no further than the Red Pill philosophy. I don’t think any other philosophy or community has put more effort into trying to categorize and understand women as a group than Red Pill has.
For those of you who aren’t already familiar with Red Pill, it’s essentially a loosely formed self-development community that shares a coherent philosophy (though without any one main source) based on the idea of ‘taking the red pill’, derived from the movie The Matrix. The red pill symbolises the brutal truth and knowledge of the world, and Red Pill teaches how to function as a man with that truth. And a dedicated and well fleshed-out subsection of this philosophy is the ‘truth’ about women.
Today, we’re going to be reviewing a guy named Rollo Tomassi. He’s considered one of the forefathers of the Red Pill movement, particularly the Red Pill’s view of women, dating, and relationships. His book and blog, both titled The Rational Male, has been treated almost like a Bible in the Red Pill community.
Below are the 9 Iron Rules that he came up with to describe how a man should behave if he wishes to have a good life, particularly in relation to women, dating and relationships.
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Dan’s Top Resources
Dan has 3 bestselling non-fiction books available in both written and audio form:
- The Naked Truth, his latest release, shows you how radical honesty builds self-confidence and relationships
- Nothing to Lose explores how to build confidence from the inside by correcting the programming in your brain
- The Legendary Life is a very practical, action-focused guide on how to plan and execute a life plan that brings you your ideal lifestyle
Dan continues to put out high quality online self-paced courses through the Udemy platform
- Nice Guy Recovery: how to transform from a people pleaser into a confident beast.
- Shamelessness: how to relieve yourself of the “not good enough” story
- Powerful Honesty: takes you through step-by-step development of your communication skills to be more charismatic and powerful in your honesty
- The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass program: use the famous 3X Model to build confidence in all areas of life
- Financial Freedom for Beginners: includes everything from budgeting, to getting a raise, to investing in the stock market, to starting a side-business and more
- Overcoming Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently!: covers the psychology of “rejection” and what actions to take to make yourself immune to the fear of it