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Why People Pleasers Can’t Relax Socially (Defensive Hypervigilance)

Transcript I want to start with a quote that my dad used to say all the time: “Stay silent and be thought a fool, or open your mouth and remove all doubt. Used to say this pretty much any time I said something stupid. This is going to be at the heart of what we’re talking about today, which is Read More

Do You Believe All Women Are The Same?

To the guy who always comments… I write this post with one particular person in mind, though it is actually for any man who – for whatever reason – has come to the Red Pill / manosphere type conclusion that all women are essentially the same. (This means you believe that all women are attracted to the same traits, react Read More

Nice Guys! How to Flirt Without Being Creepy (Female Dating Coach’s Advice)

Watch the video above, listen on your favourite podcast platform below, or scroll down for the transcript.   Spotify: Soundcloud: Apple Podcasts: Amazon Music:   Want more from Marni? Check out her links: WingGirlMethod.com: https://winggirlmethod.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marniwinggirl Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/winggirlmethod/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marniwinggirl Twitter: https://x.com/winggirlmethod?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@marnikinrys LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marni-kinrys-6237394a     From “Nice Guy” to Confident in 90 Days Being “nice” still Read More

Why Gen Z Can’t Socialize: The Problem with Being Raised by The Internet

Why Do We Doom Scroll? This problem isn’t only affecting the younger Gen Z generations – nearly every age bracket is prone to this addictive behaviour. But there’s a difference for Millennials like myself: we learned to socialize before cell-phones and the internet were even a thing. I was about 14 years old when I got my first cell phone. Read More

The 25 Boundary Scripts For People Pleasers

BROJO. Get the Guide — $27 For people pleasers who are done freezing Know exactly what to say when someone pressures, guilt-trips, or disrespects you. The 25 Boundary Scripts For People Pleasersby Dan Munro 50 ready-to-use boundary scripts that help people pleasers say no without guilt, arguments, or ruined relationships. 👉 Download Your Copy — $27 Instant PDF access · Read More

The Hidden Shame That Controls People Pleasers

Watch the video above, listen on your favourite podcast platform below, or scroll down for the written version. Spotify: Soundcloud: Apple Podcasts: Amazon Music: . The Hidden Shame That Controls People Pleasers Introduction Today we’re going to be talking about shame, how it controls your decision making, and what you can do about it to live a better life, essentially. Read More

Shameless: How to Stop Caring What Other People Think

Transcript 0:00 Going backup recording going awesome we’re underway cool welcome along lads and today we’re going to try and answer the impossible question how do I stop caring what other people think of me and This is-it’s kind of an ironic question because while I do believe you can significantly reduce how much thought and time and energy you Read More

The Dating Mistake Nice Guys Make That Kills Attraction

Watch the video above, listen on your favourite podcast platform below, or scroll down for the written version. Spotify: Apple Podcasts: Soundcloud: Amazon:   Summary A lot of men think their dating life is cursed. They’re trying. They’re investing. They’ve done the apps, the matchmaking, the coaches, the workshops, the bootcamps, the whole circus. They’ve spent real money, real energy, Read More

From “Nice Guy” to Authentic and Confident in 90 Days

BROJO. Start the 90-Day Program — $4,500 90-DAY 1:1 COACHING MENTORSHIP Being “nice” still isn’t working, is it? You try to please everyone – partner, boss, friends, kids – and then secretly resent them for holding you back, even though you know it’s really your lack of boundaries and assertiveness. Relationships feel tense or flat. Your job pays the bills Read More

Heart Rocket: The Matchmaking Solution for Men Who Want Marriage

Watch the interview above, or listen on your preferred podcast platform below, or scroll down for the full transcript! Spotify: Apple Podcasts: Soundcloud: Amazon Music:   Transcript Dan Munro 0:00 Welcome back to the Brojo Online Podcast. Got a special one for you today. Some special guests, Stryker and Luba, who are currently based in Spain, run one of the Read More

Persistent Resistance: The Secret Personality Disorder of People Who Can’t Agree

A client of mine has a father who is extremely difficult to deal with. He’s belligerant, stubborn, argumentative, defiant, bigoted, and just generally negative about everything all the time. If you say Up, he insists on Down. If you suggest Right, he’ll argue that Left is best. If you give him what he asked for, he’ll complain that it wasn’t Read More

“Not all men” – the real reason men get defensive 

First of all, if you have already decided that the reason men get defensive when you point out the harmful things that some men do – like sexual assault and domestic violence – is because they’re weak, stupid, pathetic, self-centred, immature, or secretly bad themselves, and you’re not openly curious about the possibility of a different answer, then stop reading. Read More

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