If you enjoyed this video, check out more of my work, links, posts and contact details – including my FREE group coaching, here: https://msha.ke/danmunro   There’s a kind of narcissism in Nice Guys and people pleasers that we’re very reluctant to admit to ourselves. And I’ve called it, the Inept God Complex. So the god complex is where you think your grandiose, Read More

Want FREE ACCESS to my $200 Nice Guy Recovery online training course? Just fill out this quick 5min survey and I’ll send you access immediately!     A lot of People Pleasers pride themselves on being generous and giving. The simple fact is of course that they’re not really. Everything comes with a condition. Everything is designed to manipulate people into giving the Read More

If you enjoyed this video, check out more of my work, links, posts and contact details – including my FREE group coaching, here: https://msha.ke/danmunro   People pleasers have an unfortunate habit of presenting themselves weakly. They lack assertiveness training and therefore have bad body language, posture and voice tone. This makes people disrespect them, partly because they don’t respect themselves! In this Read More

Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course Coaches Dan Munro and Angie McQuillin are both experts in helping people-pleasers become more assertive, confident and honest. Dan focuses on Nice Guys who struggle in their romantic relationships, while Angie focuses on C-Suite executives who want to be more assertive in their careers. In this epic 2 hour podcast, Dan Read More

Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course I’ve been criticized in the past (and recently) for focusing too much on men when it comes to Nice Guy Syndrome. While it might seem obvious why I do this, the complaint is valid because people-pleasing is not gender-specific. In fact, all the traits of Nice Guy Syndrome can be found Read More

You think that making people happy is a good thing, and means that you’re a good person… right? Have you ever stopped for a while to question that? “Making people happy” is the term we use to describe selfishly manipulating people’s emotions into a range that we think they enjoy (and will therefore like us more), and that we find Read More

People with Nice Guy Syndrome or People Pleasing Syndrome often pride themselves on how “considerate” and “helpful” they are, even to the point of feeling resentful about not being acknowledged or rewarded justly for their “kindness”. One of the most painful insights I’ve ever had about myself is learning that my helpful niceness was actually HURTING people more than it Read More

People with Nice Guy Syndrome or People Pleasing Syndrome often pride themselves on how “considerate” and “helpful” they are, even to the point of feeling resentful about not being acknowledged or rewarded justly for their “kindness”. One of the most painful insights I’ve ever had about myself is learning that my helpful niceness was actually HURTING people more than it Read More

Few people admit to being people-pleasers, and even those who do take pride in it as if it’s a good thing to be. In this video, I define what it means to be a people-pleaser, what beliefs define this disorder, and why it’s certainly not a good thing to be! If you’ve had a string of superficial relationships, or you’re Read More

Few people admit to being people-pleasers, and even those who do take pride in it as if it’s a good thing to be. In this video, I define what it means to be a people-pleaser, what beliefs define this disorder, and why it’s certainly not a good thing to be! If you’ve had a string of superficial relationships, or you’re Read More

I’ve put this video together for anyone curious about getting coaching with me for integrity, confidence and connections. This video includes: – What coaching is – Why get coaching – Who is right for coaching (and who isn’t) – The process for getting started – Options and investment Worth a watch if you’re a Nice Guy or people pleaser who’d Read More

Watch the video above or read the blog post version below Note: This post/video is excerpted from the BROJO University course Completely Shameless: The Secret to Confidence Let’s start by saying that shame and confidence are on a spectrum. On one end you have confidence, and on the other end you have shame. It’s very rare to have both at Read More