One mistake I see my clients make in relationships and friendships and so on is that they compare people to other people that they’re used to, rather than a more objective baseline. You can see this with politicians. We compare politicians with each other rather than normal people. If we were to compare them with normal people we’d see how Read More

When I was a young lad, we used to watch America’s Funniest Home Videos. I think this show still exists. When I was younger, we didn’t have social media, TikTok, etc. So, the closest we came to seeing other people living their lives caught on camera was this show, and it always showed funny things and fails and so on. Read More

A collection of this week’s most popular posts over all social media… The reason why confrontations are so difficult One thing that makes confrontation difficult especially with people we don’t know very well, is that we have an assumption that they are somehow sane, that they are rational minded. So, when they yell and argue and  criticize us and insult Read More

A collection of this week’s most popular posts over all social media… A simple trick for overcoming FEAR A simple trick for overcoming fear is to first understand that most fear comes from exaggerating a situation in your mind. You see it as bigger or longer than the next step actually is. See any task or any situation that you’re Read More

A collection of this week’s most popular posts over all social media… Stop pressuring yourself, and do THIS instead Don’t punish your partner in this way Creative dysmorphia: How artists hold themselves back The difference between attraction, connections, and relationships How to avoid being nervous in a job interview “I’ve been struggling with my Dad bod for years…” A review Read More

A collection of this week’s most popular posts over all social media… A simple cure for overthinking Why you should NEVER apologize (really!) Should you try harder or just give up? How to deal with resistant people How Stoicism helped me overcome my fear of Death   Dan’s Top Resources Books Dan has 3 bestselling non-fiction books available in both Read More

Below is a collection of the most popular posts from my various social media sites, ICYMI; What to do next time someone pisses you off… How to eliminate taking things personally… Why people do stupid shit… Andrew Tate fully profiled in less than 1 minute… How to stop hating people… Integrity vs virtue-signalling   Dan’s Top Resources Books Dan has Read More