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Using ChatGPT and connections to find your perfect job

Today’s post is random and kind of off-topic for me: a practical tip on how to develop your career using technology. So I’ve played around with ChatGPT a few times. It’s good for some things, not so good for others. And an idea came up in a recent session with a client of mine who wants to pursue a more Read More

Stop trying to fix bad friendships

A client of mine was struggling with an acquaintance. He was having some conflict with her and wanted to fix it. I asked him, what was the last thing she said to you? And it was basically, “Leave me alone, never contact me again!” So straight away I’m asking, “Why are you putting effort into this person? Why aren’t you Read More

Social Confidence for Introverts

New full length video: Let’s talk about social confidence specifically for introverts. We’re doing a special mention for introverts for a particular reason, and that is, extroverts can still have confidence issues but it generally leads them to do things that actually create social abundance, like showing off for performing really highly impressing people with their skills. So even if Read More

How to improve & boost your social confidence

How do you build social confidence? How do you boost your confidence? Let’s talk about that. We’re gonna look at some general practices that improve social confidence. So this isn’t a specific to any personality type or any particular struggle. It’s more the general things that I believe from working in this space as a coach for more than a Read More

This fallacy ruins your social life

There’s a social bias I’ve observed, it might already have a name, I just call it the “Time-Served Fallacy”. It is the sense of connection you get with someone simply because you’ve spent a lot of time with them, or you’ve known them for a long time, or both. People often get this with their workmates. They think their workmates Read More

Your group identity is holding you back

One thing I’ve noticed throughout my life is that any time I’ve tried to identify as being part of a group, whether it’s a big thing like being a liberal, or some little thing like being part of the cool group at my school, I’ve immediately felt compromised. It’s like I have to sacrifice something true about myself in order Read More

Unusual Practices To Improve Your Social Skills

Check out the full Building Rapport: Communication Skills to Surpass Small Talk course Full Transcript: This video is an excerpt from my course on building rapport, going beyond small talk for greater communication skills. If you like what you see in the video, you want to see the whole video and the rest of the course, check out the link Read More

For those of you who feel like you hate nearly everyone…

One of my clients has a problem that I think is pretty common, and that is he generally just doesn’t quite like people. Like, ALL people. I think a lot of people feel this way these days. While you have a few friends etc. that you do like, you might have an overall sense that human beings are disappointing. From Read More

The social connection opportunity you miss every day

Pretty much every day, most of us miss an easy opportunity to create a deep connection with somebody. It goes right past our noses and we don’t even see it. And that opportunity is when somebody asks you, “How’s it going?” You know, that standard throw-away polite thing that people say, usually at the beginning of the day in the Read More

The Cluster Effect: A weird bias that ruins your social life

There’s a weird bias that I don’t think has ever really been noticed before, and I call it “the Cluster Effect”. When I’m helping clients with their social lives and relationships I often see that they subconsciously seem to believe they see a fair representation of all of society in their daily lives. They think they get to experience a Read More

Mastering the Art of Compliments: The Power of Positive Feedback

Check out the full Building Rapport: Communication Skills to Surpass Small Talk course here Full transcript This video is an excerpt from my upcoming course Building Rapport: Going beyond small talk with advanced communication skills. If you like the video, check out the link in the comments to view the course. Let’s talk about mastering the art of compliments, the Read More

The Importance of Authenticity: Staying True to Yourself While Building Rapport

Full Transcript This video is an excerpt from my upcoming course on building rapport, going beyond small talk with advanced communication skills. If you like what you see in this video, check out the link to the full course below: Check out the full Building Rapport: Communication Skills to Surpass Small Talk course here: https://www.udemy.com/course/building-rapport-communication-skills-to-surpass-small-talk/?referralCode=232A411425049ABDA5AA In this video, we’re going Read More

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