Attracted to a friend? Here’s how to manage it

Ever found yourself romantically or sexually attracted to a friend? What is the “right” thing to do in this awkward situation? You know, for the longest time, I believed that being friends with someone negates the possibility of a romantic relationship, and that’s because I’d spent so much time in “the friendzone” – a state of being friends with a Read More

Final day for bonuses! The Art of Flirting and Maintaining Intimacy

It all ends in 12 hours! Thanks for your patience. I know that promotions can be annoying if you’re not keen on the product, but don’t worry, we’ll be back to our regular daily doses of integrity next week. Today it’s only $59.99! This is still a 66% discount. After today, it will be sold at full price of $149.99 Read More

[Short] Being attractive is easier than you think

Get your Daily Dose of Integrity with my FREE newsletter here: Many of you have heard the old sage advice that when you stop trying to get a partner, that’s when one will come into your life. This “advice” usually just frustrates people because they’ve “given up” plenty of times and it’s never “worked”. This is because very few Read More

Why do nice guys struggle to maintain attraction in long-term relationships?

The typical nice guy relationship After coaching nice guys for nearly 10 years, I’ve seen the same patterns in their long-term relationships over and over again… not to mention in my own relationships in the past. They’re not all the same, but there are a lot of consistencies.  They usually start well, with the girl being over the moon at Read More

Why do girls like bad boys instead of nice guys?

  Get Your Nice Guy Syndrome Diagnosis for Free! Fill out this quick 2 minute quiz and I’ll give you a personalised Nice Guy Syndrome Diagnosis AND free access to the online course that best suits your current needs and goals. Take the test here:   Before we get into this, we need to carefully define what the terms “bad Read More

“Oneitis” – How to Get Over Your Crush (Part 1)

Watch the video above or read the post below This one is on a specific question that’s come up many times, where the people I’ve worked with are cursed with something called “one-itis,” which actually comes from the Pickup Artist community. It’s in reference to an adult who’s basically developed an intense crush on someone, the kind of crush you Read More

New Seduction Technique: Push ’em away with honesty!

Watch the video above, or read the written version below I want to introduce you to a revolutionary new way of dating, something that you’ve probably never been advised to do before (and yet is probably more successful than anything you’ve ever tried). Most people, when dating, essentially use ‘seduction’ strategies. These often amateurish – the person’s just made up Read More

Are “high standards” preventing you from finding love?

Watch the video above, or read the blog version below Many of you consider yourselves to have “high standards” socially. But if this is keeping you chronically single, there might be something darker happening underneath the surface. I was running what are called ‘boot camps’, where I take people out onto the street to meet strangers and teach them how Read More

Critique of Red Pill: 9 Iron Rules of Rollo Tomassi

Are you a Nice Guy who can’t afford 1:1 Confidence Coaching? Check out the Nice Guy Recovery & Confidence Building Brotherhood program. It’s for people pleasers who want to become more authentic, assertive, and masculine, to achieve better relationships, unbreakable self confidence, and respect from others.  > Click here to learn more <<   At BROJO, we’ve been talking a Read More

The Difference Between Attraction, Connection & Relationships

One of the biggest problems I see with my coaching clients when it comes to their social lives (and with friends and family in general), is they get three different concepts confused with each other: attraction, connection, and relationships. Anybody who doesn’t know what these three things are and doesn’t know how to separate them, or to measure what they’ve Read More


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