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Why Nice Guys Fear Rejection (The Self-Rejection Trap)

This podcast is based largely on my Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently course. Watch the video version above, listen on your favourite podcast platform below, or keep scrolling for the written summary. . Spotify: Soundcloud: Apple Podcasts: Amazon Music   Fear of rejection Today I’m talking about fear of rejection, because I think it’s one of the most powerful Read More

This is what it feels like to be a Confident Man

The old version of you, which you’re now starting to overcome, was trapped in a miserable universe. He saw the world as a black and white set of social rules, where it was his duty to make everyone else feel good, even if it made him feel horrible. He had to sacrifice his dreams, desires and goals if they ever Read More

Imagine Being So Confident You Can Do THIS

Being stuck in a conversation with someone who bores you, or offends you, or just isn’t your type of person, is a special kind of hell. Most people don’t know what to do in this situation, other than make false excuses and try to sneak away without upsetting anyone. Imagine being confident enough that you could end this conversation (or Read More

Why You Rely on Approval Instead of Trusting Yourself (Green Light Syndrome)

You can watch the video version above, scroll down to listen on your favourite podcast platform, or scroll even further to read the written version. Soundcloud Spotify Apple Podcasts Amazon Audible:   If you want to overcome Nice Guy Syndrome, boost your social confidence and communication skills, and live with integrity this year, complete this questionnaire and get free resources Read More

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Are you worried that you can’t enjoy life?

One of my coaching clients recently had a session with me about how he can’t figure out how to just be present and in the moment. He always feels like he’s rushing towards the next milestone, achievement or goal.  When we dug into it, he recognised that he has a repulsion to the idea of sitting still with his thoughts Read More

The Ultimate Guide to Overcoming Imposter Syndrome as a Student

Have you ever looked around your classroom and thought, “Everyone here is smarter than me”? Maybe you got a good grade, but instead of feeling proud, you felt lucky. Maybe you told yourself that sooner or later, people would find out you are not as capable as they think. If that sounds familiar, you are not alone. Many students feel Read More

This Nice Guy Got Sick… Then the Self-Sabotage Started

Soundcloud: Spotify: Apple: The following is a real live coaching session hosted by Dan Munro, and featuring Brojo veteran Andy. Watch/listen above, and/or read through the transcript below: Transcript Dan Munro 0:00 If you’re a nice guy or people pleaser who’s working actively on becoming more confident, I have no doubt that recently, or soon, you’re going to have an Read More

Why Productivity Is a Trap for Intelligent Men

Click here for a free Confidence Building and Integrity course that will get you to stop people-pleasing and be more assertive with quick and simple steps. Why Doing More Is Making You Worse (Not Better) What if the thing that’s destroying your performance isn’t laziness, lack of discipline, or motivation—but doing too much? I’ve been working with high achievers since Read More

Why High Achievers Are Addicted to Feeling “Behind”

Click here to for a free Confidence Building and Integrity course that will get you to stop people pleasing and be more assertive with quick and simple steps. Why Success Makes You Feel More Threatened, Not Safer There’s a weird paradox I see over and over again with high achievers. The better they do, the more threatened they feel.The more Read More

Perfectionism Is Why High Achievers Never Feel Good Enough

Why High Achievers Accomplish More Than Most — and Still Feel Like They’re Failing One of the strangest patterns I’ve seen after years of coaching high achievers is this: the more someone accomplishes, the more they feel like they’re failing. On the surface, it makes no sense. Promotions, money, status, competence, results — all of it keeps going up. And Read More

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