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Stop Ending Conversations Early

You’ve started a conversation, everything is going well, when all of sudden you feel this URGE to get away! So you quickly grab their phone number and bail, safe in the knowledge that you could end the conversation without losing their interest. But what if this is actually PREVENTING you from making friends, getting dates, and building business contacts? Let’s Read More

The Role of Personal Values in Brisbane

Guest post by Technosire   In the complex interplay of modern romance, the foundational role of personal values cannot be overstated. As society progresses and individual preferences evolve, the fabric of dating and partner selection is increasingly woven with the threads of personal beliefs and moral frameworks. This trend is vividly apparent in Brisbane, a city renowned for its vibrant Read More

Should I meet people who aren’t “my type”?

A coaching client I’m working with asked my opinion when it comes to trusting your intuition about whether you should approach someone, say hi to them, meet them, etc. He was referring particularly to that story we have in our head about whether they’re our “type” of person. He’s asking if we should avoid people when we don’t feel that Read More

How to instantly reduce your jealousy

For those of you who suffer from jealousy, there’s something I want you to notice: the cherry-picking of evidence. When we’re jealous of someone, we isolate a single element of their life and focus in on that. We ignore or dismiss any trade-offs or other areas of their life that might contradict our desire to be them. Let’s say, for Read More

How to deal with avoidant loved ones

Recently, a client of mine was struggling to maintain a relationship with his niece and nephew. He kept trying to put the effort in and make things happen, and the more he tried, the further away they got. Now this, we discovered, was because they probably have Avoidant Attachment Styles. Avoidants are generally resistant to intimacy, repulsed by authority, and Read More

Why you’re attracting crazy people

There are two painful social truths that have absolutely transformed my life. The first is, the opposite of crazy is still crazy. And the second is, you attract what you are. When I was deep in my Nice Guy Syndrome, I felt like I was always the stable one in my relationships. I was the one who wasn’t emotional, I Read More

The top 3 skills to build your social circle

Daily Dose of Integrity I used to really struggle with socializing, especially when it came to romance and dating. I felt like I was putting in so much effort, doing so many hours per week trying to make things happen and it just wasn’t working. I’d be dancing in nightclubs for 10 hours a week, and cruising through parties every Read More

What If No One EVER Liked You

This video is a sample from my course Overcoming Fear of Rejection… Permanently! << Click here to learn more about the course Most people are afraid of rejection. This leads us to be fake, overly agreeable, and obsessed with what other people think of us. We’re so certain that being disliked by others is a bad thing that must be Read More

Why approaching strangers isn’t getting you a girlfriend

This one is for the singles who are actively getting out there. If you’ve gotten into the whole pickup artist thing, or basically any form of dating-related activity where you’re being active and bold, you might have started approaching strangers. If you’re following my basic integrity approach, then you’re doing with it bold and transparent honesty, expressing attraction respectfully and Read More

Your dating checklist prevents you from finding love

One of the biggest mistakes I see people make in dating is essentially having a kind of checklist or criteria that they judge people against; a list of qualities that they hope for in an “ideal” partner. Sometimes these things are superficial, like the way they look or how much money they make, and other times they’re qualities that you Read More

Beyond Dating: The Green Pill integrity-based approach to finding your ideal partner

Introducing the Green Pill approach to dating and relationships In this podcast episode we’ll discuss about what I’m going to call the “Green Pill” approach to dating and relationships (as opposed to red pill or blue pill ideologies). I’ve named it that because green seems the right colour to signify integrity, growth, and nature / being natural. So with the Read More

Why dating sucks for men… and what to do about it

Dating sucks! It seems to be agreed around the world that the modern dating scene is the worst it’s ever been in recorded history. This belief is backed up by escalating divorce rates, the increase in adults who identify as “single”, and decreasing birth rates. There’s clearly a rise in pessimism about dating and relationships, and a growing dread that Read More

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