If you want to create a great connection with someone, with the hope of forming a long-term healthy relationship, one of the most tragic and ironic twists of fate is that trying to make this happen actually prevents it! Today I want to simply define the difference between trying to make a relationship happen, versus just letting it happen. Figuring out this Read More

Watch the video above, listen on your favourite podcast platform below, or scroll down for the transcript.   Spotify: Soundcloud: Apple Podcasts: Amazon Music:   Want more from Marni? Check out her links: WingGirlMethod.com: https://winggirlmethod.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marniwinggirl Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/winggirlmethod/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marniwinggirl Twitter: https://x.com/winggirlmethod?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@marnikinrys LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marni-kinrys-6237394a     From “Nice Guy” to Confident in 90 Days Being “nice” still Read More

Watch the video above, listen on your favourite podcast platform below, or scroll down for the written version. Spotify: Apple Podcasts: Soundcloud: Amazon:   Summary A lot of men think their dating life is cursed. They’re trying. They’re investing. They’ve done the apps, the matchmaking, the coaches, the workshops, the bootcamps, the whole circus. They’ve spent real money, real energy, Read More

Watch the interview above, or listen on your preferred podcast platform below, or scroll down for the full transcript! Spotify: Apple Podcasts: Soundcloud: Amazon Music:   Transcript Dan Munro 0:00 Welcome back to the Brojo Online Podcast. Got a special one for you today. Some special guests, Stryker and Luba, who are currently based in Spain, run one of the Read More

A short, sharp guide how to get more dates by building genuine attraction and connection without chasing, performing, or overcomplicating it.   The core rules   Stop trying to get people to like you. Focus on finding the right fit, not winning approval. Quality beats quantity. Radical honesty beats polished charm. Self-respect matters more than outcomes. Alone is better than Read More

No dating apps. No seduction techniques. No fear of rejection. If you’re sick of… Using dating apps that don’t promote you at all, or you only end up on dates with people who are a bad fit… Having your head crammed full of techniques and tactics that you’re supposed to use to make people attracted to you, and feel both Read More

One of the main takeaways I had from Louis Theroux’s documentary on the Manosphere was the new cultural norm of contempt for being a good person. Today I want to talk about why it is good to be good, and how relishing in being the bad guy is a sign of mental dysfunction and exceptionally low self-worth, and is therefore Read More

Click here to access my Nice Guy Recovery & Confidence Building course (worth $130) and connect with like-minded men, all for free! How to Ask Someone Out Instantly (Without Being Needy or Strategic) When guys talk about dating, one question pops up again and again: How do you ask someone out the moment you meet them? In pickup terminology, this Read More

✅ Join the Brojo community on Skool to build your confidence and relationships   Commitment vs Promise: How to Tell if Your Relationship Is Built to Last Most people think they know what commitment means. They don’t. They confuse promises with commitment, romance with loyalty, and emotional “highs” with long-term compatibility. And because of that, they create fragile relationships — Read More

Get free access to my Nice Guy Recovery & Confidence Building course (worth $130) and connect with like-minded men when you join Brojo here… all for free! > Click here to claim your course   Quick refresher: what is one-itis? One-itis is the adult crush that won’t die. It’s obsessive, needy, and mostly fictional. The guy builds a fantasy version Read More

Get free access to my Nice Guy Recovery & Confidence Building course (worth $130) and connect with like-minded men when you join Brojo here… all for free! https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/about   Can a Connection Be One-Sided? Ask Dan Anything – with thanks to Peter for the question Peter asked me a deceptively simple question: “Can a connection be one-sided? For example, if Read More

Guest post from TechnoSire   When you’re coming out of a bad divorce, the worst days feel heavy and slow. There are ways people get through it and new things you learn about yourself. Here, I’ve looked into some of the latest work from psychologists, therapists, and people tracking these things in 2024 and 2025. The Body’s Taking Notes Some Read More