Watch the video (above); read the full written version (scroll down); or listen on your favourite podcast platform: Soundcloud: Spotify: Apple Podcasts:   Why Do the Most Successful People Often Feel the Most Unsatisfied? Why do the most successful people often feel the most unsatisfied? Today, we’re going to have a look at why even successful CEOs, C-suite, and top Read More

I get so many cold reach-outs via DM on LinkedIn that I felt it necessary to write this post. I want to help you do this better. First some hard truths: You are extremely obvious. First, you add me as a “connection” out of nowhere as if we’re friends. Some of you then throw me an obviously templated greeting message. Read More

Why High Achievers Are Afraid of Being Happy And The Uncomfortable Question Nobody Asks What if the reason you can’t enjoy your success isn’t that you haven’t achieved enough, but that you’re actually afraid of what happens if you finally relax? That idea sounds ridiculous at first. Almost everyone believes they’re trying to be happy. When they’re dissatisfied, they assume Read More

Winning vs Losing A client of mine is a trader. When he makes money in a trade, he says it’s a “good” trade. When he loses money, it’s a “bad” trade. This good vs bad system causes him to have emotional reactions to the trades. When they’re “good” he feels happy, relieved, and comfortable. When they’re “bad” he feels stressed, Read More

Get free access to my Nice Guy Recovery & Confidence Building course (worth $130) and connect with like-minded men when you join Brojo here… all for free! >> Click here to claim your course!   Why “Embracing Failure” Isn’t Nihilism — It’s Peak Performance Every now and then someone gets into a spirited debate about one of my books or Read More

Daily Dose of Integrity Imagine this: you go to the gym and you say, “I’m going to do ten push-ups today,” but you only do seven. You might tell yourself: “I did 3 less than the goal.” That is true, but there is another truth: you did 7 push-ups, and you’re maintaining your health so you’re on track with your Read More

This comes from an Ask Dan Anything session. This video discusses the common plateau in personal development that occurs after an individual experiences a crisis, works on themselves, and then begins to feel better. People often become stuck in a comfortable state that prevents further growth, because their brain is always seeking the familiar. Motivation is driven by discomfort rather Read More

My favourite business guru is Alex Hormozi. I’ve never in 10 years as an entrepreneur seen more value come from one person. I wholeheartedly recommend any business owner follow Hormozi’s advice. However… Here are some of the things I’ve seen him talk about in his content: vacations are a waste of time he feels “deprived” making “only” $250 million per Read More

A lot of people think they have a fear of failure, and that they’re quite okay with success. But I’ve often found that when I dig into this with one of my clients, they’re far more afraid of success than they are of failure. It’s like they’ve been tricked by their brain. When we think of failure, we think of Read More

To-do lists and calendar bookings and phone reminders are all well and good, but have you ever wondered how to truly optimize the tiny amount of time you have in this life? Have you ever wondered how people like Elon Musk and Beyonce get so much more accomplished than everyone else with the same amount of time and physical constraints? This Read More

Daily Dose of Integrity There’s a crazy irrational belief that many of us High Achievers have: we are not allowed to enjoy our life too much. We can’t be too grateful. We can’t cruise or relax. We get nervous about too much good luck. We have this bizarre paranoia that some kind of force is watching us, and if things Read More

I had a session with a guy today who’s successful by all the most well accepted criteria. He’s got himself a nice big family, he’s rich, he’s important, he’s powerful… all that kind of stuff. And he’s finally reached that point in his life – as a lot of people do – where ticking all those boxes doesn’t feel as Read More