If you don’t show people who you really are and let them fall in love with you, you are stealing their life.

Instead, let people hate you.
Let them see who you really are—what you really feel—what’s beyond the nice performance. And let them decide for themselves whether or not they like you.

Stop fucking manipulating people.
It’s unfair, and nobody wins in the long term.
All you get is some short-term validation, and then everybody loses.

You set unrealistic expectations if you’re nice all the time, you start to convince people that this kind of niceness actually exists—that humans really arethis altruistic and happy all the time.

This creates a completely false impression of what humans are actually like.

This is why a lot of people feel shame around things like anxiety, depression, or anger problems—because they’re surrounded by “nice” people who don’t seem to have any of those issues.

They don’t realize they’re surrounded by a bunch of performing bullshit artists.

When you’re nice all the time, you set the bar too high for ordinary, honest people.

You make everybody else look like they’re mean or selfish in comparison—without realizing that you’re the selfish one.

Convincing everyone you’re nice—just so you can get their approval.

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