90-DAY 1:1 COACHING MENTORSHIP

Being “nice” still isn’t working, is it?

You try to please everyone – partner, boss, friends, kids – and then secretly resent them for holding you back, even though you know it’s really your lack of boundaries and assertiveness.

Relationships feel tense or flat. Your job pays the bills but feels like a soul-draining compromise.

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A clear, concrete roadmap — without any high-pressure sales calls.
Build Real Confidence — Build Self-Respect in 90 Days

You censor what you really think and feel, swallow frustration, and end up with resentment, anxiety, and occasional bursts of anger that scare you. You worry that one day you’ll either explode at someone you love or collapse into anxious depression and give up on yourself.

You lie awake wondering if you’re destined to always be the “nice guy” who’s never truly respected.

That’s exactly where many of my clients started. Now they speak their minds calmly on the spot, stand up to high-status people without blinking, build deep, honest relationships, and live according to their values rather than guilt and fear.

This coaching offer is designed to help you make that same shift with a clear, concrete roadmap… and without any high-pressure sales calls.

The Outcome

In the next 90 days, you’ll build the foundations of unshakeable integrity and social confidence so you can speak your mind, set firm boundaries, and stop people-pleasing – without destroying your relationships or reputation.

✓Have a clear personal code of values and standards so you know exactly what “living with integrity” means in practical, everyday decisions.
✓Be able to say what you really think and feel – even when it’s uncomfortable – in your relationship, at work, and with friends, without panicking about what others think.
✓Establish and enforce healthy boundaries so people stop walking over you, and you stop over-delivering, over-apologising, and over-explaining.
✓Replace guilt, shame, and anxiety with grounded self-respect, so you feel worthy of the life you actually want rather than settling.

The Mentorship Roadmap

Here’s exactly how we’ll create those results, step by step.

Phase 1

Integrity Blueprint: Who you really are

  • We map out your current Nice Guy patterns: people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, dishonesty, over-giving, sexual shame, and hidden resentment.
  • You define your core values and non-negotiable standards – your Integrity Blueprint – so you finally know what “being a good man” means for you, not for everyone else.
  • You get simple, real-life exercises to start acting in alignment with this blueprint immediately (micro honesty, small confrontations, tiny acts of self-respect).
✓ Result of Phase 1: You stop feeling confused and start feeling clear – you know what the “right thing” is in tough situations, and have a blueprint to guide your behaviour.
Phase 2

Courage and Communication: Saying what needs to be said

  • You learn practical communication tools to speak your mind respectfully: honest disclosures, clean confrontations, boundary statements, and “no” without guilt.
  • We prepare and debrief real conversations from your life (partner, boss, family), so you’re not just learning theory – you’re dealing with real situations and upgrading them.
  • You gradually face emotionally difficult situations – disagreements, criticism, saying “no” – in a controlled way that builds confidence rather than overwhelming you.
✓ Result of Phase 2: You can have uncomfortable conversations without panicking, freezing, or lashing out. People start to see you as calm, honest, and respectable instead of “nice but weak”.
Phase 3

Lifestyle Integration: Living as a confident, respected man

  • We redesign your daily routines, relationship habits, and social life to match your Integrity Blueprint: how you work, rest, connect, and pursue goals.
  • You create a realistic, sustainable action plan for the next 6–12 months so that the changes stick instead of fading once coaching ends.
  • We address the predictable resistance – from your own fear as well as from other people – and install strategies so you don’t relapse into old Nice Guy habits when things get tough.
✓ Result of Phase 3: You’re no longer “doing a program”; you’ve become a different kind of man – one who leads with integrity, stands his ground, and builds relationships based on honesty instead of approval-seeking.

Logistics & Investment

Here’s exactly what you get.

Weekly 1:1 coaching sessions (online)

60–90 minute private sessions with Dan Munro focused on your specific situations – relationship, work, family, dating, or general confidence.

Session recordings for life

You can revisit any session to reinforce breakthroughs, read transcripts, and stay on track with strategies, instead of relying on memory.

Between-session support (email / text)

If you want feedback, or you have a big conversation or difficult decision coming up, you can reach out for guidance so you’re not alone between calls.

LIFETIME free access to BROJO community resources

You gain access to courses and group coaching that reinforce what we’re working on and connect you with others on the same journey (normally $100/month – free to you permanently!)

Investment Options

If you’re not yet sure you’re ready to invest, you can apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session. Below are the options for men who are ready to get into it and trust I’ll deliver what I promise.

Best value

$4,500 US — One-time payment

$4,500 USD
✓ Save $300 compared with the monthly plan
✓ 1 extra coaching session FREE to use any time after the program
Start the 90-Day Program — $4,500
One payment. Full 90-day program.

$1,600 US — Monthly plan

$1,600 USD / month

3x payments of $1,600 split over 3 months

Choose Monthly — $1,600
NOTE: This 90-day intensive is limited to 5 private clients at a time so each person gets full attention and support. The payment links will be disconnected if I’m currently full.

Guarantee

If either of us feels like the coaching should not continue after our first session together, you will get a full no-questions refund and we’ll stop the coaching.

Testimonials

Independent reviews from coaching clients are available on Google.

Selected Google reviews from coaching clients

Will Stephens★★★★★

“I've been working with Dan for over 5 years now. I first met him when I was a 21 years old, extremely anxious, and with no direction in my life. It turned out I acted as a people pleaser. Working with Dan on these issues over this long stretch of time has massively increased my quality of life in every aspect of my life. The anxiety I used to experience on a daily basis has gone, and I believe in myself way more to cope with the challenges of life. The coaching has made me into a stronger person. I'd say it's the best investment of money I've ever made.”

Mel Pinnock★★★★★

“Before working with Dan I was chronically stressed mostly due to my people pleaser tendencies. I constantly put the needs of others before my own, was incredibly worried about what people thought of me, avoided confrontation at all costs and believed that I simply wasn’t good enough.”

“In every session he has quickly identified the root issue and offered practical steps to work on that particular problem. Although I have a lot of work to go, I feel like a new person. I am speaking up for myself, having hard conversations and challenging my self-doubt.”

Fred Lunjievich★★★★★

“As someone who has participated in workshops and coaching sessions with Dan, I can honestly say his work has had an enormous effect on the quality of my life. My upbringing led me to a place where compulsions to be a ‘nice guy’ and a pushover were ruling my life. I now happily married and in a great place emotionally because of Dan's influence. I often refer back to his material and past coaching sessions in navigating through tricky situations.”

James W★★★★★

“Before working with Dan, I was struggling with different limiting beliefs, dating, and women, to be specific. Over the course of working together, Dan helped me work through those limiting beliefs and find solutions that improved my confidence as a man, especially in dating.”

These are selected reviews from Google. You can read more independent client reviews there.

Typical experiences for my clients (no promises – this is just what happened for them):

Andy went from catastrophizing all the time about what his workmates and neighbours thought of him, to simply no longer caring about what anyone thought of him. Ever. This allowed him to finally start a side-hustle that he’d wanted to do for decades.
Daniel cheated on his wife. She was about to divorce him. We repaired his marriage by learning to express his emotions clearly, set boundaries, and get over his fear of missing out. Now they’re stronger than ever before. And I helped him start his own business.
Simon was a 30 year old virgin who could only get into the friendzone. He’s now married with two children, and is totally honest in the relationship.
Tony was devastated after his wife of 8 years suddenly left him for another man after getting sick of his people pleasing. Now he’s travelling the world and dating amazing women that he once thought were out of his league. The people pleasing has stopped.
Ian was terrified of commitment of any kind because deep down he thought he wasn’t good enough. He’s now married and expecting his first child, and he found the courage to go all in on his own business.
Vince was constantly getting into pointless conflicts with his wife, and losing her respect. Now they’re a solid team, and she looks up to him as a man who can maintain boundaries without losing control.
Jerry was still living at home in his late 20s, absolutely dominated by his controlling parents. His work colleagues bullied and controlled him too. He’s now living on his own, can approach and connect with beautiful women without fear, and is respected and known as someone you do not mess with at work.

All these stories can be verified on Google.

FAQ

Who is this coaching really for, and how do I know if I’m a good fit?
The best fit for this program is a man who identifies as being Mr Nice Guy and/or a people pleaser, is dedicated to becoming more confident and authentic, and is willing to get uncomfortable trying some new behaviours.
What specific changes or results can I realistically expect in 90 days?
This obviously depends on your courage and what kind of trauma etc. holds you back, but you can reasonably expect to figure out your Nice Guy sabotaging beliefs and behaviours, fix the worst of them, feel confidence growing, know what your Core Values are and how to live by them, and learn how to create healthy relationships within 90 days. After that it’s just practice and repetition.
How is this different from therapy, books, or free confidence content online?
I will get inside your head for your specific needs, challenges and goals. I’m like a mental mechanic, I will help you pull yourself apart and put it all back together to function much more effectively. You can try doing this on your own too, just expect it to take years instead of months due to being unable to see your own blind spots.
What happens after I sign up – what’s the onboarding and session process like without a sales call?
After you’ve enrolled, you’ll be sent a link to book in your first session and you’ll receive an email with all links, bonuses and other information needed. During our first session the rest will be made clear. I have times available for anywhere in the world, and you can contact me if there’s an issue with finding a good time – we’ll make something work.
How much time per week will this require, and can it work with my job/family schedule?
Apart from the weekly coaching session, our work will be designed to integrate with your life. Your “homework” tasks will involve real-life situations, not extra work on top of your everyday activities. You already have enough time.
What if I do the work but don’t get results – do you have any kind of guarantee or safety net?
I can’t guarantee that you’ll do the work, I can only guarantee that I will deliver expert coaching built on a solid foundation of formal education, practical training, and decades of experience. I can guarantee that I have implemented all of this into my own life for incredible results. I can guarantee that nearly all of my clients who have courageously taken action have achieved results above and beyond their expectations. If you have a history of investing without doing the work, however, this is not for you.
How confidential are our sessions and messages, especially around sensitive topics like sex, shame, or trauma?
Highly confidential. The information won’t be shared with anyone without your permission. Calls are recorded for you, but only you and I will have access to the recordings.
What is your coaching style and philosophy – will I resonate with your direct, integrity-based approach?
My style is straight to the point. I won’t be hard on you, but I will be honest. I will focus on pointing out the contradictions in your beliefs, and help you to take responsibility for your actions. I won’t allow you to play the victim and blame others for your choices or results. If you don’t want to take full responsibility for your life, I can’t help you.
What happens after the 90 days – can I continue, join a community, or move into more advanced coaching?
Some of my clients continue with more advanced coaching because they want to become insanely confident. Many of my clients continue with light-touch maintenance coaching (e.g. one session per month) to make sure they keep their progress going. Others continue with the Brojo community, using the courses and my books to stay on track. And some clients simply don’t need me at all any more and go off on their own.

Ready to build real confidence and self-respect in 90 days?

Choose the payment option that works for you. There are no high-pressure sales calls.

More questions? Contact me dan@brojo.org any time.

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