Manipulation is a weird concept because essentially, we’re always manipulating all the time. Everything we do has some intention, like socially speaking of changing another person’s Behavior. So we really have the question of what’s good manipulation and what’s bad manipulation, or should we say what’s helpful and what’s harmful? What’s ethical, what’s unethical? There are some key factors to Read More

I recently saw a heartbreaking video on TikTok. It was a little boy of about 3 or 4 years of age, lying in a hospital bed with tubes in his nose. His father was beside him, and he was talking to the camera which must have been held by this mother. The video was titled, “Boy’s final words to his Read More

1. Use the 3X model My 3X Model is a simple roadmap to conversations to ensure they’re real, brave, honest, connecting and respectful. You can use this model with friends, lovers, family, coworkers and strangers alike. I recommend starting with safe people and then once you’ve got the hang of it, branch out. Step one: Explore. Use curiosity to think Read More

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Take my Nice Guy Quiz to learn how to replace people pleasing with powerful confidence and authenticity: >> Click Here to Take The Quiz Today! Comment below with your opinions on this video! Both the extroverts and introverts can be socially anxious. See introversion and extraversion are personality traits. They’ve got nothing to do with self-confidence in any objective correlation or fashion. Read More

Throughout my teen years and early twenties, dating was the source of my greatest pain, stress, depression and frustration. I simply didn’t do well with women. Unbeknownst to me, I suffered from Nice Guy Syndrome, and what appeared to be “bad luck” with women was actually a completely logical pattern of reactions based on how I was behaving socially. I Read More

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Unedited transcript: you know what’s up everyone Dan coming back at you with another ask Dan anything question here today our question comes from a client of mine named Graham and essentially it’s comes from a session we had but the question was how do i express myself when I’m confused or how do i express myself when I don’t Read More

Ever have a friend put you down and you don’t know why??? I had a great discussion yesterday with a high-achieving guy who has a friend that is completely lacking in ambition (let’s call him Mr X). Mr X will always use snide comments and insults to put high-achievers down. These are hidden inside humour, like he’s trying to come Read More

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I was going to start using advertising but then I figured I’d rather have that money go to enthusiastic supporters of my work who need extra cash instead sending it to Facebook and Google! So I’ve created an experimental affiliate referral program that requires no cost on your side, just any amount of time and effort you’d like to put Read More