Watch the interview above, or listen on your preferred podcast platform below, or scroll down for the full transcript! Spotify: Apple Podcasts: Soundcloud: Amazon Music:   Transcript Dan Munro 0:00 Welcome back to the Brojo Online Podcast. Got a special one for you today. Some special guests, Stryker and Luba, who are currently based in Spain, run one of the Read More

A client of mine has a father who is extremely difficult to deal with. He’s belligerant, stubborn, argumentative, defiant, bigoted, and just generally negative about everything all the time. If you say Up, he insists on Down. If you suggest Right, he’ll argue that Left is best. If you give him what he asked for, he’ll complain that it wasn’t Read More

First of all, if you have already decided that the reason men get defensive when you point out the harmful things that some men do – like sexual assault and domestic violence – is because they’re weak, stupid, pathetic, self-centred, immature, or secretly bad themselves, and you’re not openly curious about the possibility of a different answer, then stop reading. Read More

Watch the video above, listen on your favourite podcast platform below, or scroll down for the written summary Spotify: Soundcloud: Apple Podcasts: Amazon Audio:   Most people who struggle with assertiveness have the same misunderstanding: they think being assertive means becoming a selfish prick who dominates people, hurts feelings, and starts fights. That misunderstanding is exactly what keeps them passive, Read More

What’s up, confidence fans? Welcome back to Brojo Online. Quick little video for you today. I wanted to speak about the hypocrisy of human beings. You know, lately a lot of people have been telling me how I should and shouldn’t live my life. And I don’t take this personally anymore, but this used to really affect me. I used Read More

After posting a podcast video about rejection, one person commented something interesting: I just got rejected for a job, struggled for two days, and I don’t think it had something to do with this. I rather suspect that this job would’ve given me tremendous power to change the world for the better, and not having been given this opportunity, I Read More

Catastrophizing is the word we use to describe getting stuck in your head imagining horrible outcomes for the future that are probably not going to happen. While they feel very reasonable, real and likely when you’re drowning in these negative fantasies, statistically they’re extremely unlikely. This is not the same as planning for possible setbacks. There is no real planning Read More

This podcast is based largely on my Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently course. Watch the video version above, listen on your favourite podcast platform below, or keep scrolling for the written summary. . Spotify: Soundcloud: Apple Podcasts: Amazon Music   Fear of rejection Today I’m talking about fear of rejection, because I think it’s one of the most powerful Read More

A short, sharp guide how to get more dates by building genuine attraction and connection without chasing, performing, or overcomplicating it.   The core rules   Stop trying to get people to like you. Focus on finding the right fit, not winning approval. Quality beats quantity. Radical honesty beats polished charm. Self-respect matters more than outcomes. Alone is better than Read More

Watch the video above, listen on your favourite podcast platform below, or scroll down for the written notes Soundcloud: Spotify: Apple Podcasts: Amazon Music:   Nice guys destroy relationships in ways they think are healthy. They think love should be enough. They think being easygoing makes them attractive. They think staying calm and rational during conflict makes them mature. But Read More

No dating apps. No seduction techniques. No fear of rejection. If you’re sick of… Using dating apps that don’t promote you at all, or you only end up on dates with people who are a bad fit… Having your head crammed full of techniques and tactics that you’re supposed to use to make people attracted to you, and feel both Read More

ANDY F I want to recognise one of my clients, Andy, who has absolutely crushed it over the last year. Since we started working together, Andy has: learned to confront his workmates to protect himself from their toxic behaviours, and no longer cares about other peoples’ negative opinions and judgments trained for and completed his first triathlon (and is now Read More