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And while the wounds may have been inflicted way back then, I have found in my clients that without exception, the real damage is being done NOW.
A clear way to see this is to imagine what it would be like if you treated someone else the way you treat yourself.
Every time you keep a truth to yourself, it’s the equivalent of telling someone else to shut up because their ideas are worthless.
Every time you fail to be disciplined, using the excuse of “I don’t feel like it”, it’s the equivalent of discouraging someone else from doing what is right for them.
Every time you accept disrespectful treatment from someone without standing up for yourself, it’s the equivalent of standing by quietly while someone else gets bullied and abused.
Every time you eat non-nutritious food or drink alcohol, it’s the equivalent of deliberately poisoning someone else.
If you treated someone else the way you treat yourself, would it be called “love and respect” or would it be called “bullying and abuse”?
THAT’S why you feel the way you do about yourself.
And if you can see this clearly and yet CONTINUE to do it, then you are a masochist who wants to self-harm.
Dan’s Top Resources
Dan has 3 bestselling non-fiction books available in both written and audio form:
- The Naked Truth, his latest release, shows you how radical honesty builds self-confidence and relationships
- Nothing to Lose explores how to build confidence from the inside by correcting the programming in your brain
- The Legendary Life is a very practical, action-focused guide on how to plan and execute a life plan that brings you your ideal lifestyle
Dan continues to put out high quality online self-paced courses through the Udemy platform
- Nice Guy Recovery: how to transform from a people pleaser into a confident beast.
- Shamelessness: how to relieve yourself of the “not good enough” story
- Powerful Honesty: takes you through step-by-step development of your communication skills to be more charismatic and powerful in your honesty
- The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass program: use the famous 3X Model to build confidence in all areas of life
- Financial Freedom for Beginners: includes everything from budgeting, to getting a raise, to investing in the stock market, to starting a side-business and more
- Overcoming Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently!: covers the psychology of “rejection” and what actions to take to make yourself immune to the fear of it