“Oneitis” – How to Get Over Your Crush (Part 1)
Watch the video above or read the post below This one is on a specific question that’s come up many times, where the people I’ve worked with are cursed with something called “one-itis,” which actually comes from the Pickup Artist community. It’s in reference to an adult who’s basically developed an intense crush on someone, the kind of crush you Read More
Why People-Pleasers Hurt the Ones They Love Most
Watch the video above or read the post below I’ve been coaching people-pleasers for more than six years now, and one of the things I’ve noticed is a counterintuitive truth, which is that people-pleasers are often actually worse towards those closest to them – those who love the most- than they are to strangers, work colleagues, associates and so on. Read More
New Seduction Technique: Push ’em away with honesty!
Watch the video above, or read the written version below I want to introduce you to a revolutionary new way of dating, something that you’ve probably never been advised to do before (and yet is probably more successful than anything you’ve ever tried). Most people, when dating, essentially use ‘seduction’ strategies. These often amateurish – the person’s just made up Read More
Still single? Don’t worry about it…
Watch the video above, or read the written version below Now if you’re like most people, you’ve been raised with a very simple, ingrained belief that you barely ever question: “It’s better to be in a relationship than it is to be single.” Some of you have since changed this belief to the opposite: that it’s better to be single Read More
Are “high standards” preventing you from finding love?
Watch the video above, or read the blog version below Many of you consider yourselves to have “high standards” socially. But if this is keeping you chronically single, there might be something darker happening underneath the surface. I was running what are called ‘boot camps’, where I take people out onto the street to meet strangers and teach them how Read More
Dealing with panic when starting a new job or relationship
Watch the video above, or read the unedit transcript below Right, looking like we’re live here on Facebook. Got a spontaneous one for you guys today. I just got a message from a friend of mine, who I’m going to keep anonymous. But basically, they’re about to start something new in the career space but are afraid how it’s going Read More
Covert Contracts: The Relationship Killer
Watch the video above or read the transcript below A ‘covert contract’ is a death sentence that destroys the health of any relationship. I first heard the term coined by Dr. Robert Glover in his book No More Mr. Nice Guy. I’m not sure if he’s the one who made it up or not, but I’ll give him credit for Read More
Critique of Red Pill: 9 Iron Rules of Rollo Tomassi
Watch the video above, or read the transcript below At BROJO, we’ve been talking a lot about the views, perspectives and beliefs that men have about woman, and how this affects our interactions and our relationships. We’ve identified that many, if not most men, have at least a few very unhelpful beliefs that get in the way of them creating Read More
Overcoming Your Fear of Rejection & Abandonment
Watch the video above, or read the transcript version below Today we’re going to be talking about something deep and dark: the fear of abandonment. This is the one fear to rule them all. It’s the secret fear underneath all of your problematic behavior in the social world and you’ve probably never even heard of it. What is the fear Read More
Sexual Jealousy: Comparing Yourself to Her Past
Watch the video above, or read the transcript below Sexual jealousy seems to be a very hot topic. I did a video about this a while back and got a lot of feedback from it. I then received a specific question about this topic from an anonymous reader, he says: “I saw your video on jealousy about girlfriend’s sexual past. Read More