“Oneitis” – How to Get Over Your Crush (Part 1)

Watch the video above or read the post below This one is on a specific question that’s come up many times, where the people I’ve worked with are cursed with something called “one-itis,” which actually comes from the Pickup Artist community. It’s in reference to an adult who’s basically developed an intense crush on someone, the kind of crush you Read More

Why People-Pleasers Hurt the Ones They Love Most

Are you a Nice Guy who can’t afford 1:1 Confidence Coaching? Check out the Nice Guy Recovery & Confidence Building Brotherhood program. It’s for people pleasers who want to become more authentic, assertive, and masculine, to achieve better relationships, unbreakable self confidence, and respect from others.  >> Click here to learn more <<   I’ve been coaching people-pleasers for more Read More

New Seduction Technique: Push ’em away with honesty!

Watch the video above, or read the written version below I want to introduce you to a revolutionary new way of dating, something that you’ve probably never been advised to do before (and yet is probably more successful than anything you’ve ever tried). Most people, when dating, essentially use ‘seduction’ strategies. These often amateurish – the person’s just made up Read More

Still single? Don’t worry about it…

Watch the video above, or read the written version below Now if you’re like most people, you’ve been raised with a very simple, ingrained belief that you barely ever question: “It’s better to be in a relationship than it is to be single.” Some of you have since changed this belief to the opposite: that it’s better to be single Read More

Are “high standards” preventing you from finding love?

Watch the video above, or read the blog version below Many of you consider yourselves to have “high standards” socially. But if this is keeping you chronically single, there might be something darker happening underneath the surface. I was running what are called ‘boot camps’, where I take people out onto the street to meet strangers and teach them how Read More

Dealing with panic when starting a new job or relationship

Watch the video above, or read the unedit transcript below Right, looking like we’re live here on Facebook. Got a spontaneous one for you guys today. I just got a message from a friend of mine, who I’m going to keep anonymous. But basically, they’re about to start something new in the career space but are afraid how it’s going Read More

Covert Contracts: The Relationship Killer

Watch the video above or read the transcript below A ‘covert contract’ is a death sentence that destroys the health of any relationship. I first heard the term coined by Dr. Robert Glover in his book No More Mr. Nice Guy. I’m not sure if he’s the one who made it up or not, but I’ll give him credit for Read More

Critique of Red Pill: 9 Iron Rules of Rollo Tomassi

Are you a Nice Guy who can’t afford 1:1 Confidence Coaching? Check out the Nice Guy Recovery & Confidence Building Brotherhood program. It’s for people pleasers who want to become more authentic, assertive, and masculine, to achieve better relationships, unbreakable self confidence, and respect from others.  > Click here to learn more <<   At BROJO, we’ve been talking a Read More

Overcoming Your Fear of Rejection & Abandonment

Watch the video above, or read the transcript version below Today we’re going to be talking about something deep and dark: the fear of abandonment. This is the one fear to rule them all. It’s the secret fear underneath all of your problematic behavior in the social world and you’ve probably never even heard of it. What is the fear Read More

Sexual Jealousy: Comparing Yourself to Her Past

Watch the video above, or read the transcript below   Sexual jealousy seems to be a very hot topic. I did a video about this a while back and got a lot of feedback from it. I then received a specific question about this topic from an anonymous reader, he says: “I saw your video on jealousy about girlfriend’s sexual Read More