50 Ways That You Undermine Your Confidence
Building confidence is hard enough as it is, so you don’t need to be making it even more challenging by sabotaging your progress through pointless harmful behaviours. In this episode, we look at the most common way that people wreck their own confidence, and how to prevent this from happening. ———————— For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your Read More
How Attachment Styles Control Our Lives, with Dan and Mike
BROJO Coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells get together to pontificate on various topics, ranging from morning routines and daily habits through to how your attachment style affects relationships and careers. ———————— For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online Read More
Your Partner Is YOU
The people you date and form relationships with are an accurate measurement of your own self-confidence. If you’re finding yourself in a negative pattern in the romantic world – e.g. chronically single, superficial connections, disastrous relationships etc. – the issue is within you. In this episode, we explore different attachment styles and other important factors that determine your dating satisfaction Read More
Emotional Intelligence: How an Autistic Guy Learned to Connect, with Paul Micallef
Paul Micallef always knew that socialising and fitting in was difficult for him, moreso than the other kids. But it wasn’t until he was 30 years old before he realised that he had Aspergers, and that his social difficulties came from not intuitively grasping the social rules all the other kids seemed to be aware of. But since this discovery, Read More
Managing Your Retroactive Jealousy, Sexual Envy and Possessiveness
If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here. ———————— Jealousy rears its ugly head in all relationships eventually. Particularly what’s know as ‘retroactive jealousy’ – where you get upset and feel threatened by your partner’s sexual history. In this podcast, we discuss Read More
Feeling emotionally numb? The problem of ‘learned psychopathy’
Watch the video above, or read the written version below It can be pretty common for modern-day men to feel like they don’t actually have emotions. I felt like that for most of my life. I had suppressed my emotions so much that I started to believe that I genuinely wasn’t experiencing them. It was actually a tragedy – in Read More
How to Build Healthy Relationships
If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free. Learn more here! Is your marriage or relationship in trouble? Or do you have problems creating a healthy relationship in the first place? After hours of painstaking research, years of difficult trial and error, and years of coaching Read More
Getting your partner to open up
Today we’ve got a question about leading conversations: “I recently got into a new relationship. My partner is a great conversationalist. But I realized when he’s not in the mood for conversation, I don’t know how to lead it. Because I don’t have anything interesting to say, What can I do to solve this?” Now this came up in the Read More
The Difference Between Attraction, Connection & Relationships
One of the biggest problems I see with my coaching clients when it comes to their social lives (and with friends and family in general), is they get three different concepts confused with each other: attraction, connection, and relationships. Anybody who doesn’t know what these three things are and doesn’t know how to separate them, or to measure what they’ve Read More
Are You Too Shallow? The Truth About Attraction
If you’re a single guy, you might have noticed a little pattern whereby you avoid women whom you’re attracted to so that others don’t think of you as “shallow.” I’ve noticed this come up with quite a few of my clients lately – an avoidance of people they’re attracted to because they don’t want to be judged as being superficial, Read More