Family Drama: Keeping your cool when they mistreat each other
One of the toughest social situations a person can deal with is when their own family have a go at each other. In this video, BROJO Coaches Dan and Mike tackle a question from a BROJO member who’s sister is manipulating their parents, who in turn enable her poor behaviour. What should HE do in this situation? Let’s find out! Read More
How to Escape A Narcissistic Relationship
Narcissists are everywhere. There’s not a lot of them, but they do a lot of damage. I want to talk about how to prevent them from ruining your life, either in a relationship, a friendship, or even a business connection. If you’re already with one or you’ve just finished with one and you’re looking to recover from that, we’re going Read More
Why your parents constantly put you down
Today we’re going to be talking about how to deal with parents who put you down or otherwise constantly make you feel bad about yourself. We’re gonna have a look at how they do this, why they do this, and what you can do to reduce the impact that has on you and rebuild your confidence and self-esteem. I got Read More
Psychopaths: How to Protect Yourself from Predators
Up to 3% of the population are psychopaths, or at least highly psychopathic. These people are self-centred, lacking in conscience, ruthless and charming. They can enter your life and wreak havoc if you’re unprepared.. and you won’t see them coming. Listen as I share my experiences managing killers, rapists and con artists as a Probation Officer, and what I learned Read More
The 5 Different Types of Bullies… and How to Deal With Them
Most bullying prevention strategies don’t protect you from personal attacks or teach you how to stand up for yourself. Confidence building is the key to stop being too sensitive, however you should know the unique methods for the different types of bullies. Read More
Everyone is Full of Shit
Notice how full of shit everyone is? Probably not. Your cognitive biases will have created insecurity that know-it-all people take advantage of. Let’s talk about building more confidence in your decisions. Read More
The Perfect First Date
Sick of hit ‘n miss online dating while you’re desperately trying to Find The One? Bring some leadership and integrity back into your dating for more success in love. Read More
The Importance of Managing Your Expectations
“Expectations are predictions bathed in unreasonable certainty” – me. I first started exploring the concept of managing expectations on a whim, when I ran the Confident Mindset Inner Circle for the first time. I had no idea how important this concept would turn out to be. I bought the conversation to the boys at Brojo, asking them some key Read More
How To Create An Authentic Relationship
Creating authentic connections with others may be the most powerful thing you can do to enjoy life. If you’re sick of Pick Up Artist techniques and people-pleasing, check out this new way of winning friends and influencing people through honesty. Read More
Stop Taking Responsibility for Other Peoples’ Emotions
The fear of abandonment or being seen as selfish lead us to manipulate people we think are ‘suffering’ from ‘bad’ emotions. This leads us away from our values. Read More