How to Know Yourself, Step One: Stop Believing Your Beliefs
Notice how CERTAIN you feel about your beliefs. You’re sure that you’re an atheist or a person of faith. You’re sure that you’re a good person or a bad person. You’re sure that you believe in gravity. But WHY are you so sure? ———————— For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org If you enjoyed this video, Read More
What 100 People Pleasers Say They Have in Common
This People Pleaser survey was conducted over the months of November-December in 2017, as part of market research for my new coaching program The Honesty Effect: 3X Your Social Confidence to Free Yourself from People Pleasing in Just 12 Weeks. Over 100 people responded to the survey, and I’ve analysed the results with my feedback here. If you identify as Read More
Give Up Your Identity
Most people try to label themselves as succinctly as possible. These identity labels come with an unwritten set of rules, standards and boundaries. Whatever the identity, the label is a summary of the rules you must follow to remain true to “yourself.” We believe in our identities only because of a massive filtering out of evidence – both passively and actively – to avoid acknowledging the simple truth: That we’re not identifiable. Read More
Kill Your Fantasy
Procrastination remains one of life’s biggest mysteries. You know you should do it, yet you just can’t seem to find the motivation, courage or time to follow through. It’s time for you to explore why this is happening. It’s time to kill the fantasy, before it’s too late. Read More
How to find The One
Do you believe you need to find a special partner and that you’re a loser if you’re not in a relationship? You try to figure out how to find The One. But what if that search is preventing you from finding love? Let’s investigate further. Read More
The Painful Truth About Running Your Own Business
It’s December; reflection time. A client recently told me he was inspired by a post I shared on Facebook about my struggles with money this year. This reminded me that sometimes, given the nature of my work, I give the impression that I have everything sorted and under control. It’s important that you know I don’t have it all sorted. Read More
How to Free Yourself from Regret
Regret is caused by your tendency to create “counterfactual realities”. If you’re a Nice Guy you tend to only see the past as being a failure. Live by your values instead… Read More
The Importance of Managing Your Expectations
“Expectations are predictions bathed in unreasonable certainty” – me. I first started exploring the concept of managing expectations on a whim, when I ran the Confident Mindset Inner Circle for the first time. I had no idea how important this concept would turn out to be. I bought the conversation to the boys at Brojo, asking them some key Read More
Facing Fear: It Does Not Stop You
Learn from Brojo Confident Mindset about Overcoming Fear, facing shame, and leaving your comfort zone. Let go of backwards rationalization to choose Courage. Read More
The Difference between Values, Virtues, Goals and Outcomes
The difference between values and virtues/goals/outcomes? Be yourself without being owned by the pursuit of money and need for social acceptance Read More