[Short] How to deal with your plans being ruined

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One of the hardest things to accept in life is that things just never really go exactly to plan. We always get so frustrated and stressed about this as if we’ve had bad luck or as if this is some new or rare thing that occurs. Where in reality, we can’t control the future. So of course nothing is going to go exactly to plan. Of course the weather isn’t going to be what you think it is or of course that person is going to have a flaw that you didn’t see coming and so on. Now what a truely philosophical person does is expect that this is going to happen and have a plan to adjust to each thing that occurs rather than hoping that those things won’t occur or plan to just plow through them. As the Stoics would say, the obstacle is the way forward. So, whenever something happens that isn’t part of the plan, make it part of the plan as quickly as possible, so that you have the least amount of stress.



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