Daily Dose of Integrity

If you dig deeply into the Nice Guy Syndrome, you’ll be faced with a little surprise.

Despite many claims of the Nice Guys on how they are afraid of rejection and confrontation and so on, one of their greatest, often unacknowledged, fears is actually the fear of feeling confusion or the fear of feeling like you don’t know the answer.

There is almost nothing that the Nice Guys have more in common with each other than the emotion of repulsion and shame in the presence of confusion.

This is what leads us to bail out of things when they get hard.

This is what leads us to do the Shiny Object Syndrome, our ceaseless jumping from task to task and our feeling that we never seem to quite finish anything.

This is what makes us give advice even when we shouldn’t.

This is what makes us make up answers when we should really say: “I don’t know.”

This is what makes us stay away from the unfamiliar.

See, Nice Guy Syndrome is all about control, and confusion is simply the emotional state of being out of control and that’s why we avoid it so heavily.

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