Nice Guys vs. Incels

I’ve recently become aware of this: some of the guys that really need the kind of content that I’m putting out don’t look at it. That’s because they don’t understand what the term Nice Guy means.

They don’t identify with it. They think it means incel. Red pill. Woman hating. Entitled to sex. Nasty.

That’s not what I mean when I say Nice Guy.

Nice Guy Syndrome does include that small niche of really misogynistic, entitled, delusional guys. But, for the most part, nice guys are nothing like that.

They’re actually quite kind to women, even if it’s coming from an inauthentic place. They genuinely like women, and they want things to go well with them. Also, most of the nice guys believe that they are the problem, rather than blaming it on the women.

They’re not like these incels that you see on a Reddit Forum, hating on women because they couldn’t get laid.

So, when I say Nice Guy, I don’t mean that you’re one of those incel guys—it’s a completely different thing.

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  1. I should note that struggling with sex doesn’t make you an incel – incel is an identity term meaning you feel you belong to that group

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