Socially speaking, quality is better than quantity. Instead of trying to make everyone like you, try to find a few people who love you for who you are. Allow the rest of the people to dislike you or ignore you.

What would you prefer: a hundred superficial friends who don’t really care about you or five deeply personal friendships with people who would die for you?

You can’t have both.

Nothing bad happens if people judge you. I know that it’s hard to believe, but if you look back, you’ll realize that even when people judged you in a really negative way, nothing really happened to you.

You can let it happen.

People can talk about you behind your back, they can think things about you that are incorrect, they can hate you.

Most of time nothing actually happens when they feel this way about you. So, why are you worried about it?

To dive deeper into this topic, check out the original video here: