Being stuck in a conversation with someone who bores you, or offends you, or just isn’t your type of person, is a special kind of hell.
Most people don’t know what to do in this situation, other than make false excuses and try to sneak away without upsetting anyone.
Imagine being confident enough that you could end this conversation (or even an ongoing relationship) directly and honestly, without shame, guilt or anxiety!
Imagine being so sure of yourself that you could do THIS:
The Art of Exiting a Conversation
Confident people speak their mind, no matter how others might react.
Confident people choose who they spend their time with, and unapologetically reject anyone who’s not a good fit for them.
Confident people never TRY to get respect from others. They leave you no choice but to respect them or lose them forever.
For most people, living like that is a fairy tale – something you either think is impossible, or is only available to special people born with some kind of advantage you don’t have.
Bullshit.
Almost without exception, all of my clients believed they were incapable of socializing without small talk, avoiding conflict, people pleasing, and generally being fake.
“I was ridden with anxiety and confidence issues. Dan cured my nice guy syndrome which was holding me back from accomplishing my personal and business goals.” – Vin Autera
“My general attitude is much calmer and more confident.” – James Kemp
“I was able to work through my anxieties and lack of self-confidence, especially around confrontation” – Emma Jessop
“The anxiety I used to experience on a daily basis has gone, and I believe in myself way more to cope with the challenges of life.” – Will Stephens
“I now understand the importance of an honest life and that has become my northern star I strive towards” – Eia Pohio
“My upbringing led me to a place where compulsions to be a “nice guy” and a push over were ruling my life. I’m now happily married and in a great place emotionally” – Fred Lunjevich
Getting to the point where you’re comfortable saying something as bold as, “I don’t feel like we have a good connection, so I’m going to go now,” is not something that happens overnight.
You will have to face discomfort. You will have to go against what you’ve been programmed to believe about being “polite” and not rocking the boat. You will struggle emotionally.
But if you can stick with it, the rewards are ENORMOUS.
Find an amazing partner who loves you for who you are.
Create an inner circle of friends who have your back.
Protect yourself from users and manipulators, never again being a victim.
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