You’re talking to someone. You want it to go well. You’re trying your best. But then it happens…
You can’t think of what to say next.
The silence grows… and grows… and you start to panic, wracking your brains for something, ANYTHING, good to say.
Then you either blurt out something meaningless and fake, immediately disconnecting and killing the rapport. Or you just freeze and they awkwardly make excuses and leave.
This is NOT because you don’t have ANYTHING to say.
The problem is that you’re not allowed to say the truth. You’re frozen because the honest thing to say is something your brain thinks is wrong, inappropriate, unattractive, boring etc.
Imagine being able to break through this freeze and create conversations that keep going effortlessly… without worrying about what to say next or relapsing into fake small talk:
How to Keep a Genuine Conversation Going Effortlessly
While this technique won’t immediately make you the most socially charismatic person in the world, it will provide a foundation where you can successfully socialize with ANYONE to get the practice and opportunities you need.
NEXT: Why you struggle emotionally with difficult conversations
Enjoy!
Dan