The reason why most couples don’t know how to stop fighting all the time is because they’re focused on how to win an argument. Remember, if one of you wins the argument, the other one loses. Do you want your partner to feel like a loser?

Arguing with your partner is a natural, normal part of any healthy relationship. It doesn’t have to be a fight. In fact, when you learn how to stop fighting with your partner and instead have connecting conflicts, your marriage or partnership can IMPROVE when you disagree.