If you’re like most people, you’ve been bought up to believe that you need to find a special partner to spend the rest of your life with. You will have been told that you’re basically a loser if you’re not in a relationship.

Some of you will have questioned this, others will simply take it as gospel. Either way, we grow up being pressured and influenced to believe that we are somehow incomplete without a partner.

Worst of all, we grow up believing that there is only one partner for us, and that a “relationship” is more important than a genuine connection. Many of us don’t even realize there’s a difference between the two.

But what if this is all complete bullshit?

In this Brojo Online podcast episode, I explore the myth of The One, and start to investigate the difference between a relationship and a real connection.

If you’ve been looking for advice on how to find The One, stop searching for a moment and give this a listen: