Nice Guy / People Pleasing Syndrome – as first properly described by Dr Robert Glover in his book “No More Mr Nice Guy” – covers a vast range of people, and not everyone is the same. However, there are key symptoms that are common amongst most of the sufferers, one of the first unfortunately being that most of them are simply unaware that they have the syndrome! So in this video, I explain some of the most common and significant hallmarks of this syndrome – such as covert contracts, suppressed rage, and fear of rejection – so that you can figure out if you’ve got it. Check out the video and count how many of the symptoms you have. If it’s more than 3, it’s time for you to seriously consider addressing this syndrome as if the quality of your life depends on it… because it does.
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