The 5 questions I always get asked

Here are 5 of the most frequently asked questions I get as a coach. I’ve challenged myself to try answer these in a single sentence! Not really possible, but gotta post something today, right? 1) How do I stop being so jealous of my partner’s sexual history? Realise that jealousy is actually a surface-level reaction to deeper core issues around Read More

10 secrets everyone keeps

After coaching for 8 years (and rehabilitating staff and managing offenders for about 7 years prior to that), I’ve been blessed to discover some of people’s deepest and darkest secrets. Not only that, after having literally thousands of people tell me what’s really going on behind the scenes, I’ve also seen patterns and themes. There are a LOT of secrets Read More

Roe vs Wade: The real problem

Rant.. The main reason the big issues never get resolved is because each side refuses to have empathy for the other. In the latest – the Roe v Wade abortion snafu in USA – it’s pretty clear that whoever feels strongly about this doesn’t give 2 shits about why the other side also feels strongly. They just make ungenerous assumptions Read More

What you should focus on NEXT

For more about my coaching, get in touch One of the biggest invisible issues in self development is that people are trying to solve problems at a high level when they still have basic problems that need attention first. As a coach, I often have clients coming to me for dating advice when they haven’t even secured full time Read More

8 years of coaching! My top tips

Made it another year! This was the toughest one yet, by far. Having our first child and choosing to be a fully engaged dad meant that for the first time since I started my coaching business hasn’t grown. We’ve just plateaued to stay alive, basically, but that was a conscious choice and now that I see the connection I have Read More

Redefining “masculinity” and “femininity”

To become more powerful in your masculinity, contact me for coaching The word “masculine” has been defined as traits characteristic of males. Not only does this vague definition leave way too much room for the “woke” movement to start weaponising the word (e.g. making being male look toxic), but it’s impractical and senseless. Men can be both masculine and Read More

The Lone Wolf: making the most of being different, with Dr Gareth Craze

Find out more about Dr Gareth Craze’s coaching and philosophy here: ENERGEIA COACHING Dr Gareth Craze is an old friend of mine who’s career has followed a similar trajectory into coaching. But what makes Gareth unique is that he has learned to make the most of what we call being a Lone Wolf. Some people only need a small tight Read More

“Do I look fat?” – how to answer this impossible question [livestream]

For more livestream action on dating, relationships and Nice Guy Syndrome, come and join the Nice Guy Husband community here Dan’s Top Resources Books Dan has 3 bestselling non-fiction books available in both written and audio form: The Naked Truth, his latest release, shows you how radical honesty builds self-confidence and relationships Nothing to Lose explores how to build Read More

Feeling trapped? This is why…

Say goodbye to not feeling good enough with my Shamelessness course Feeling trapped or stuck is one of the most depressing and anxiety-provoking states we can be in. It’s the feeling of loss of freedom and free will, of not having a choice. In this video, we explore what causes this feeling, how it’s actually an illusion, and what you Read More

How to make new guy friends

One of the biggest struggles we see in the BROJO community is adult men trying to find other guy friends. There is absolutely no training or support with this, and most guys don’t know where to start. So if you’ve moved to a new city, or simply never really had any truly masculine male friends, this video will break down Read More

Livestream: My friendzone nightmares

A look back at one of the many times I got “trapped in the friendzone” and what I learned from the experience. Come and check out the Nice Guy Facebook Group for more livestream action!

Livestream: My life as a Nice Guy

A deep-dive revealing exploration of my history as a Nice Guy. Join the Nice Guy Group on Facebook to get access to more livestreams like this


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