Blind, Broken & Still Stronger Than You: The Kijuan Amey Story

In this powerful episode of the Brojo podcast, Dan Munro sits down with Kijuan Amey, a U.S. Air Force veteran whose life took a dramatic turn on May 5, 2017. At just 25 years old, Kijuan was thriving—building a career he loved, starting a business, and chasing his dream of becoming a pilot. But one tragic motorcycle accident changed everything, leaving him blind and with life-altering injuries.

Rather than giving in to despair, Kijuan chose a different path: resilience.

In this candid and inspiring conversation, he opens up about waking from a coma, discovering the truth about his condition, and facing the emotional and physical toll of starting over. From rock climbing and downhill skiing to public speaking and writing a book, Kijuan proves that limits are often self-imposed—and meant to be broken.

His message is clear: don’t focus on what you’ve lost—focus on what you can still do, and do it with everything you’ve got.

👉 Kijuan’s story will challenge your excuses and light a fire under your goals.

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Transcript:

Kijuan A  00:00

I mean, I just felt like I was doing everything right, you know, and May 5, 2017 my new life journey starts because I would be involved in a motorcycle accident that would change my life forever.

 

Dan Munro  00:19

Welcome back to brojo online. I have a special interview guest for you today. Key one, Amy, reached out to me to tell me about his story, and it’s an incredible one. Key one is going to share his story about how he was crushing it in life, doing everything right then, out of nowhere, when he was around 25 years old, he was involved in a very serious motorcycle accident that did severe physical damage, including taking his eyesight and in a situation where most people would give up or at least indulge in self pity and the victim story, he went in another direction that I think we can all learn from. So stay and enjoy as ki Wan shares his story about how he turned this tragic accident into the start of a new life.

 

Kijuan A  01:10

I am key one. Amy, born and raised in Durham, North Carolina, after high school, I would go on to serve 10 years, three months and 17 days in the United States Air Force, but I’m not counting. I’m not counting. That was just what was on the paper. So how I got to the military was because I wanted to go to college, actually, right after high school, but there was some admission hiccups with paperwork, or however you want to phrase it, and me not being in their database. And this was actually me being on a phone call with them, trying to get some information, and they couldn’t find me at all. And I thought it maybe what was due to my, you know, name, I have a unique spell, uniquely spelled name, so I just gave her the spelling, and she was like, No, I have nothing. And I’m like, Well, I know I didn’t email or mail this, this letter to myself, so unless somebody else is out here posing as you guys, you might want to look into it. But, um, no joke, maybe the next day or two, I’m, I’m went going to the recruiter’s office, the military recruiters, because I was done with the fast food life, I didn’t want to work fast food anymore. Nothing against it. It just wasn’t for me. And so that’s when I would go on to talk to, you know, first I talked to the Navy recruiter guys, but they weren’t answering my questions that I had, they just wanted to force all of their, you know, agenda and everything else. And I’m like, I know what the Navy is about. I have a lot of Navy family. They can tell me everything you’re telling me the questions I had was about how to get my schooling paid for, and they don’t know that, so I need you to answer it, and he would not answer the question. So I left his office and went across the hall in the same day to talk to the Air Force guy. And man, it was like literally, me walking into a space that I was supposed to be in, because as soon as you walked into the office, there was a pennant on the wall that said Community College of the Air Force. And I said, I think I’m in the right spot now. And when I walked in, the office was empty, other than the two recruiters that stood there talking to one another. And they were like, can we help you? I said, Yeah, can I I think I want to join the Air Force. He’s like, Oh, come on in. I think I hit with you with that. And so I did very, very well on my test that you have to take to get in. And he would show me this, this video of the job that I was going to be doing. And that was in flight, refueling specialist, and that’s where you feel planes in mid air. Oh,

 

Dan Munro  04:08

yeah, cool, yeah, yeah, yeah, cool

 

Kijuan A  04:12

is an understatement. Showing that to an 18 year old, because I’m thinking that’s a video game that’s not real. You’re lying. Nobody’s doing that for real. And he’s like, No, yeah, no, this is a real job, but it’s only in there or in the military. You know, they don’t do it in the commercial. I said, okay, okay, this is not a civilian job. Got it. Sign me up. And I mean, I I loved it. It was nothing like it, you know. So when you got your roller coaster rides from, from just the air flow and everything else that comes with aerodynamics, I just, I mean, just the pure excitement from seeing another plane flying to towards you. Is a whole nother thing to think about, you know, because you’re like, Oh, I hope he doesn’t screw up, you know. So for those who don’t understand what in flight refueling is, just think of your like when you drive and go to a gas station, but think of that as airplanes, there’s an actual airplane that carries fuel, and you pull up to it, you pull right up behind it, and it’s giving you gas. That was my job. I was the one controlling that, and so it was so amazing to do. And I also became an instructor, so I taught it as well. I wasn’t just the one, you know, controlling, but I had to teach it and May 5, after I’ve served, you know, four years active duty, after I’ve done half of my reserve commitment, you know, it’s like everything was just amazing. Everything was going great because I as a reservist, I would be still doing my career job that I really enjoyed, and I’m trying to advance to become a pilot, because I had to get a degree for that, and only had one year left on that, and I had started my own business. So I’m already an entrepreneur. And, you know, I mean, I just felt like I was doing everything right, you know? And May 5, 2017 my new life journey starts because I would be involved in a motorcycle accident that would change my life forever, coming from one of my favorite places that I used to go, just to kind of mellow out and, you know, meditate and zone out and just be by myself, be Me, you know, because we all need that space, whether it’s your bedroom or closet, a lake like me or wherever, we all need that space just to free ourselves. And that’s what I was doing. I was just kind of out there, relaxing and when, when I noticed it was time for me, because I would have to, like I said, I was in the Reserves, so I noticed that it was time for me to head out because I still had to work that weekend of that May 5. And I said, oh, shoot, I need to go. I got to get on the road and go grab my stuff to head to the base. And as I’m heading home, there’s a car, a silver Honda Accord, to be exact, that will pull out in front of me from an intersection and the intersections where where I was so I’m on a two lane road, the lane that I’m in, and the lane is coming past me. And then there’s like trees that on both sides, along both sides of the road, and our trees in North Carolina back there, they stand really, really tall. And when you come to the intersections, though, they cut them back. And they cut them back so that you can see people like me or whatever traffic is coming down the road. Because, say, for example, it wasn’t me on that motorcycle. Say, for example, it was a semi truck coming down the road, an 18 wheeler, and you pulled out in front of it, that would have been the end of you, or either you would have been in in a situation such as mine, because that thing’s going to, it weighs tons, and it’s going to take you down the road with it. And so that’s why they cut those trees back. And so when, when an accident like that happened to me, and on the police report, it says there were two cars behind him who saw me coming, so they don’t know why he didn’t stuff like that really gets under my skin, you know. And I also, and this is just a fast forward, just a little bit, but I’ll come back. Come back. He, while I was in the hospital, would try to, or attempt to come and see me, um, you know, just to apologize and everything I said, I don’t, I don’t want to talk to him. What? What words could he say that would make me feel better? Right? Because at that time, I’m still trying to figure out who I am, you know, what? What’s left of me at that point, you know? So, like I say, going back to the accident, I would, I would end up, you know, I would end up hitting him because it wasn’t much you could do motorcycles for those who. Don’t know they don’t stop that well, yeah, right, and especially not at a last minute situation. Now, if you got time, yeah, okay, we can do some things, but this is last minute. I’m not expecting a car to pull out in front of me. And so if that, if that bike stops on a dime, it’s for two reasons. One, I locked up that front brake, so I’m probably going to go flying anyway. Or two, I hit something. That’s the only way that thing stops on a dime, you know. So there was no real saving here. I mean, you know, I could it. Could say, you could say, all day, yeah, did you think about turning or changing your lane? Yeah, if I wanted to get hit by something else, you know, so there, there was no real escape here, um, unfortunately, and uh, I would, I would, you know, like, I say, hit him. And then next thing I know, I was told that I was life flighted to UNC hospital here in North Carolina, Chapel Hill, North Carolina, where I would spend the next two months of my life, the first month not even knowing I was still in the world because I was in a medically induced coma. Yeah, and so that was the first month, while they were doing countless surgeries on me, literally from head all the way down to my right foot, they had to cut my head open from ear to ear across the top to relieve the pressure off of my brain from all of the swelling. Um, then they would go in through my face to surgically repair it as well, because I needed reconstructive surgery. So I have two metal plates in my head that actually reshape my face right. Uh, one at the top. I don’t know if you can see this, this little curve here, yeah, I see that. Yeah, that’s, that’s a plate. And then one at the top of my my mouth, at the roof of my mouth is kind of fortunate to come back out. And so then I had my eye was it was popped out. This right eye was popped out because the bottom portion of the eyelid over here was torn off. So they would have to re restructure it or remake it using skin grafting from my left clavicle, which is your collarbone area. And then let’s see my jaw was broken. That the the cheapest part of my accident was probably the dental bill, and that was 20,000 US dollars after insurance. That was the cheapest part. So, yes, I lost my eyesight as well. I have damaged blood vessels in my left eye, so I can’t see anything out of it. There was scar tissue as well, and I’m thinking that’s from the Plexiglas of the face shield that I had on from the helmet. And my right eye, I see a little bit of light perception, but that’s it. It’s got to be super bright light like so the sunlight, or, Oh, I got a good one for you, that really annoying bright light that they shine in your eye at the eye doctor, yeah, that that, that one can be seen too. It’s annoying, and it also makes me tear up, because my light my eye is light sensitive now, so that’s just the head. I had a tracheotomy where they put the trache in so that I could breathe, since everything was kind of crushed in right? And then if you go down to my spinal cord, I’m medically infused with two rods and 12 screws from l4 to t2 so basically, just that whole lower section, yeah, pretty much right before you get to get into the paralyzation area, and that’s where your legs start to become paralyzed. So I’m just above that, and then I broke both of my legs, to include my right femur, which is the largest bone in your body, so that’s medically replaced. And my my left tibia, so that’s your shin bone. That whole piece is gone from knee all the way down to ankle. Is a is a metal rod. And then I, I believe my right fibia, I fractured it, but I think that one is still there, and I have a screw in my right foot. So literally, from head to to down to my right foot, they had to do surgery on me. So, so. Say hello to a million dollar man, everybody,

 

Dan Munro  15:02

yeah, what’s the total bill on that? Yeah,

 

Kijuan A  15:05

yeah. When so hospital bill was like 984 ish 1000. Yeah, US dollars. And then when you add in the dental the 20,000 that puts you right over a million.

 

Dan Munro  15:25

Yeah, he just got straight up squashed. Basically,

 

Kijuan A  15:28

I was creamed, man. Like, it’s like when you see a bug get splattered on a windshield. That was it.

 

Dan Munro  15:37

Yeah, that’s, I’m assuming you were pretty high functioning, physically being military and stuff. Yeah, that’s a big, that’s a big pivot. Jesus, yes,

 

Kijuan A  15:48

yes, it is. It was, it was, it was hard man, because my life, and I was 25 at the time when it happened. So my life at the age of 25 if anybody’s life at the age of 25 you’re, you’re all, we’re all just kind of moving fast, like life is moving so fast. We’re trying to figure out life, whether you’re working, military, sports, family, whatever it is, you’re moving fast, and then to go from that literally to being set down. From one accident. Sat down from just one accident. I couldn’t do any of the stuff that I used to do anymore, because everything I did used required sight. Yeah, you know. And so it’s so crazy because I was, I would wake up one one day from this is, you know, after I was able to come out, after I came out of my coma, it was just one random day I woke up and I was like, Holy crap. I gotta go to work. I’m still thinking the same thing that I gotta go to work, my my it’s almost like my life was still stuck on May 5, that I had to go to work. Yeah, you know, and I get the

 

Dan Munro  17:09

impression from the way you told it, that you’ve reconstructed the story from information, like it sounds like there’s a big gap in your memory, perhaps, yeah, what’s the

 

Kijuan A  17:20

last? I remember nothing. I remember nothing from from day of impact until June the sixth, I know nothing, right? So I literally lost a month of my life. I didn’t even know that was possible until it happened to me. Just

 

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Kijuan A  18:44

You know, you hear all these stories about stuff like that, you know, people in comas and things of that nature, but you never think it’s going to happen to you, right? And so when it does happen to me, and I’m like, Well, what day is it? And they tell me, and I’m like, wait, what wasn’t it just may. When did this accident occur, you know? And so I’m getting out of backstory, man, and gosh, when I tell you me going from May 5, having to get ready to go to work, until June the sixth, not knowing what, how I’m going to be able to work again. It was drastic. I literally felt like I woke up in a movie scene, right?

 

Dan Munro  19:39

I woke up, yeah, like, Yeah, well, you’re just, it’s got to be an extra sting that you were crushing it so hard right before that happened. Like, yeah, everything’s spinning the way you wanted to. It’s like, I mean, there’s no good way to have that kind of impact in your life. But had you been lazy or lost or whatever? If I wouldn’t have been so much of a drastic change, I guess. But for you to go from like finally I got everything sorted, I’m on track to just dead stop.

 

Kijuan A  20:09

Yeah, I

 

Dan Munro  20:10

can’t exactly looking up to that. I can’t, I can’t. Can’t put myself in that position to know what I’d be like to wake up to that

 

Kijuan A  20:19

exactly. And, I mean, and it’s not that I just was working. I was actually dedicated, you know, I actually loved what I did. It wasn’t just like, Oh yeah, I’m going to go make some more money today. No, no, no. That’s That was not me. Because if it was about the money I would have left, yeah, right. It was not about them, because that would have been the first exit plan I would have tried to find I needed a strategy to get out of there, because I had already got off of active duty. Why would I stay around? You know? Um, so I definitely loved the job, because you couldn’t do it in the civilian world. There wasn’t a civilian sector where you’re still flying well, they have it now. They actually do have it now, but at the time, there wasn’t that. It’s crazy because my I just met up with one of my friends out in Tacoma, Washington, and he’s like, Hey, you’re out here. And I was like, yeah. He’s like, Dude, we should have lunch. I was like, Okay, where are you? He’s like, I live right there by Tacoma, not too far, like Seattle. I said, Okay, and so he shoots down in Tacoma, and we’re, we’re, uh, chatting it up. And I said, What are you up to now? You find, uh, commercially. He’s like, actually, I’m still flying the tanker. I said, I thought you got out. He’s like, I did. I said, Wait, time out. How did you do that? He’s like, Oh, there’s a there’s a company out here now that are flying tankers on the civilian side. I said, You gotta be kidding me. Man, that made it even worse. Okay, that just made everything so worse. Because now I’m like, I could have done this in the civilian sector, but he’s like, I mean, the pay is not as good, but, yeah, it’s still cool.

 

Dan Munro  22:14

Uh, well, I mean, that’s the thing. It’s so rare for someone at 25 to feel like they’ve found the thing that they’re a master of. And because the way you described it, when you talked about like you got in there, you found your thing, you got to the point where you’re actually training dudes. You made it sound like you’ve been in there for 20 years. You know,

 

Kijuan A  22:33

that’s how they expect you to grow, yeah, just that fast. They want you to be the sharpest tool in the kit. Okay. Well, this is and so, oh, go

 

Dan Munro  22:45

ahead. Well, look, this is, this is why I was, I was keen to be on the show because, you know, you’re the kind of exceptional story that I referenced to someone, myself included, when they’re complaining about the little setbacks and upsets in life, you know, like, oh man, if she doesn’t text me back, I’m like, Dude, that’s not a real problem. You know what I mean, people out there real problems. Um, and what I like about talking to someone like you is it’s going to be challenging to people’s excuses. So really, I really want to hear about what happens after June 6 for you, like, maybe, let’s if we started with the comprehension how you got to the point where you, I guess, accepted the truth about what had happened to you, and then how you move forward from there to find something new. But particularly, I just want to know, like, how you go from waking up to that, and how the news comes in and you start to comprehend what’s happened to you, to the point where you go, Okay, this is who I am now.

 

Kijuan A  24:01

Okay, yeah, no problem. So first things first, when I told you, like as I told you, I woke up, but I couldn’t even talk yet. So it wasn’t that I wasn’t communicating, it was just that I had to communicate in a different way. And now again, I can’t see a thing. I’m blind. As soon as I wake up. This is not like a gradual eyesight lost. This was I wake up, nothing. I wake up. Can’t talk, you know, like this is everything. Everything that I woke up with was what I still have today. Granted, I can walk now, but and I can talk now because they removed the wire, but I still cannot see and I cannot smell. I still have these metal rods in me and everything, but going back to what you’re asking the June the. Six, I would be trying to figure out what, what are they talking about, who, who was in a motorcycle accident. Since I’m trying to figure out what’s wrong with me, I’m hoping it ain’t me that they’re talking about, I’m just praying that it’s not me that they’re talking about, um, even though my situation was already serious when I woke up, because I was like, I can’t see anything, like, what’s going on, and I’m not able to say this. I’m not able to express it, because my mouth is wired shut, so I’m kind of in a panic. I can’t see, I can’t talk. Like, literally, just waking up, I feel I don’t know how to express this other than to say I felt like I was in a movie, and so she she my mother, she comes to my bedside and she’s trying to figure out what’s wrong, because she can hear me, I’m right there. Her and my girlfriend, at the time, they were in my room, which I thought was my bedroom, and come to find out it’s my hospital bed room, and I say, I’m trying to say, What’s What’s this dream you guys keep talking about? What is this motorcycle accident you guys keep talking about? And she can’t understand me, right? So she’s like, hold your hands out. And I put my hands out, and she hands me a notepad and a pen, and she puts a pen in my hand, and I gave her that look that says, are you serious? What? I’m sure, you know, I can’t say anything. Are you serious? And she was like, just try to write it down. I’m just whatever. And so I’m, you know, writing, and trying my best not to write over top of what I wrote already. Yeah. And I give her the notepad back, and it says, What is this motorcycle accident dream you guys keep talking about? And she was like, oh, that’s kind of dream. That’s what happened to you. And I don’t know if any of the listeners have ever had that moment where you just sink into a bed or just feel like you just spaced out, but that’s what happened to me at that as soon as she said that, because I just got hit with a ton of bricks. As the same goes, she literally, it literally just felt like she dropped an anvil on me, because I don’t, what the heck you know, it’s like one of those, what the heck it just happened. And as I’m sitting there, uh, June the sixth, I would not communicate, speak anything like even turn my head towards the door when it opens. I did. None of that communication was kind of shut off that day you could have came in and stabbed me with a needle, and I would not have even flinched, right because I didn’t know what to do with that information. And so I believe it was like the next day. I’m pretty sure like next day or two, I finally opened back up, because I’m like, I gotta figure something now. I need some answers. I need answers. What? What happened? Who did it? How did this happen? Where was I at? You know, I’m throwing out questions left and right, okay, and they’re like, hold on, slow down. Slow down. We’re trying to understand you, and so I’m doing my best with that. And they’re telling me that this guy pulled out in front of you, he this, it was his fault, and that, I said, okay, that does make me feel a little better, but what the heck was he doing? Like, why did he see me? You know, all that stuff, and I mean, I’m upset, I mean, which rightfully so I should be, um, because this has changed my entire life. Entire Did

 

Dan Munro  29:01

you realize how catastrophic the change was right away? Like, did you have a an understanding that this is a complete reset, not some temporary sort of struggle?

 

Kijuan A  29:16

I I think when I started hearing myself over and over in my head, like it seemed like a tape recorder because I couldn’t. So here’s what I say, your eyes are like an escape or a window to the world. I no longer can use my windows. They’re closed. Interesting. So how do I escape now? Because I’m forever in my head. Oh, shit, right, you know what I mean.

 

Dan Munro  29:47

And so about it like that. The windows are shut. Yeah,

 

Kijuan A  29:51

they’re closed now. And so how do I somebody’s put curtains, tape, black tar, whatever you want to put. Over those windows that make you not able to see out of them. It’s covered now. And so I am just like, well, I sit in my head all day long and and y’all wonder why I’m always ahead of everything y’all are going to say. I’ve, I’ve thought about whatever you’re going to say 1020 times over, you know, and and it’s rare that I get surprised. If I get surprised, it’s because I didn’t see it coming.

 

Dan Munro  30:35

So I guess, yeah, that’s it. You just don’t have that distraction of vision. But yeah, your whole life inside your head, which I guess we all do technically, but we’re Yes, we got the illusion that we’re outside of it with vision, yeah, yeah, taken away

 

Kijuan A  30:50

even so even even people who can look out of a window have more than of an escape than I do. You don’t even have to step outside just looking out of the window. You have more of an escape than I do. Just think about that for a second. You know when, just when you thought you had a problem, okay, well, just when you thought you had something to be sad over. It’s not even that I’m trying to downplay your sadness. No, no, no, no. That’s not what I’m doing. I’m saying there are so many more people out here that are worse off than you. Like you have to keep going, and you have to keep pushing forward, because your next step might be your best step.

 

Dan Munro  31:37

Well, let’s Yeah, this is where I really want to this is the bit that I’m most fascinated by. You finally come to terms with things, you know, like you say the windows are shut up. And I think I don’t know, when I hear about all the various injuries that happen to for me, the eyes are the ones that like would be the biggest deal for me. You know, I’ve often thought about, God, what would it be like to be blind? You know, I’ve like so many dozens of times I’ve pondered that because it’s it would be such a game changer for me. Could cut off my arms and legs and stuff, but that one would change everything. So

 

Kijuan A  32:17

you got the best one. And I’m I give you an example the best way to try and accurately depict it. So, ski goggles, right? If you take some ski goggles, because they have that little foam on the inside of them, right, yeah, take that and spray paint them black, right? Completely black, and then wear those all day. That’s what they that’s what they make people do at the centers to be in the same kind of playing field or layout as what a visually impaired person goes through. Because my brother had to go through it. Oh,

 

Dan Munro  32:55

yeah, so like an empathy training type thing? Yeah? Yep. That’s so funny, because just yesterday, as a goof, my wife set up this game with me and my nephews where she cut up some food and then we put on blindfolds to see who can guess what the food is just by tasting it, you know, yeah, and that’s I didn’t even know you were blind, dude, like I somehow missed that when I was doing my review of me, which is so fun, yeah. So I spent it was quite a long game, too. We’re doing it for like, there’s like 20 minutes I was blindfolded, tasting food and stuff, and there’s a couple, like, carrot, I just did not recognize. I could not pick out carrot. I thought that’d be an obvious one, yeah. But even then, I was seeing, like, the red of light coming through because I just had, like, a basic thing tied over my eyes, the red and everything.

 

Kijuan A  33:44

But right, that’s why I use the the ski goggles.

 

Dan Munro  33:48

Yeah, yeah. There’s one boat where there was tomato, which I hate, and they tricked me, and so I put that,

 

Kijuan A  33:55

oh, well, you should have got that one. Oh, straight off the bat. Oh, yeah.

 

Dan Munro  33:58

Well, I was an idiot. Somebody even shout it out tomato, and I still put it on my mouth. Anyway, I spat it out on my shirt, and I didn’t even know where it landed on my shirt. So my mum had to come, like, wipe it up. And I’m just thinking of that now, thinking of you like that would be the hardest bit for me, would be to accept the amount of support you would need. Yes, in the early stages, from being such a, obviously, clearly, an independent go getter type, to having, like, you know, like I said it was, I felt like a baby when my mom wiped my shirt. There was something really uncomfortable about that, you know, I wanted to take the goggles. Yeah,

 

Kijuan A  34:36

yeah. Just imagine, just imagine being bathed by someone else. Jesus, I had to go through all of it, man.

 

Dan Munro  34:47

So how do you, how did you come to terms with them mentally like, talk us through the process where kind of got out of the self pity party, I guess,

 

Kijuan A  34:58

um, I, I. Say I kind of never got into one that was my like, that was one of the things I knew it wouldn’t happen. I’ve actually had people come into my hospital room that had a pity party. I’m like, Who did you come to see? Right? Because it wasn’t me. Obviously you got the wrong door. I actually had to tell one of my friends and I wrote this in my book. I said, hey. He said, Hey. I mean, Hey, brother, how you doing? Man? I’m like, Ah, I’ll be doing a whole lot better if you didn’t come in here. Sound like I died, right? I’m still alive. I’m talking to you. And this was actually when I could talk, when they took the wire off, right? I said, I am talking to you. I’m not dead or laid up in that hospital bed like I used to be, where you couldn’t interact with me, because I am now breathing through a ventilator in a tube. That’s not me right now. So what you should be Hey, what’s going on, man, you looking better, looking better, you know? Because when they first saw me, I they didn’t even recognize me. I was like, twice the size because I was so swollen, I was twice the size of what I was, you know, all those tubes and everything. Because when they found well, when my family finally got to that hospital, it was like 11, maybe midnight, and I had my accident like 2pm that day, so they had already been, you know, hooking me up to everything that they possibly could to keep me alive until people got there. So when I mean, I don’t even have on the clothes that I got on the hospital gown now, like because they’ve cut everything off of me. Literally had to cut everything off of me, my jacket, my pants, my shoes, my socks, everything, you know. And so it wasn’t much left of the of the helmet, because it was pretty much destroyed. Yeah, awesome, you know, before, like,

 

Dan Munro  37:17

you must have hit so hard to have those injuries with a helmet,

 

Kijuan A  37:21

yeah? Oh yeah, yeah. It was bad. I suffered a traumatic, severe traumatic brain injury, one that has made me susceptible to seizures, so I have to take medicine every day. And I used to have these really bad headaches. I don’t even know what caused them. I think it was lack of energy. Like, so if I get lack of energy, I have these, I don’t even know what. I don’t even classify them as headaches. They’re like, way worse than a headache. It literally feels like somebody is stabbing me in my head. And I’m like, What in the world? So I I have on standby. I literally have to have and keep energy drinks on standby. And it’s not because I’m I’m like, Oh, I gotta go to the gym. No. It’s because of a headache. Yeah, right, the potential headache, because the medicine they gave me makes it worse cause. And I’ve tried three different, three different headache medications, none of them work. They make it worse. So yeah,

 

Dan Munro  38:38

so talk us through like, Okay, so now I’m getting a sense that actually, prior to the crash, which makes sense with your life, is that you have some kind of innate optimism, where you know that prevented you going because you had every excuse in the book to go into a pity party. I’m sure that, oh yeah, won the award, or the unit that went there. And as you said, people went there just looking at you, you know, having their own sort of projection onto you or something. Tell me about that part of yourself, like, Why is it you didn’t? What have you got that other people don’t? That stopped you from going down that hole.

 

Kijuan A  39:19

I had the will to want to get up. I had the will to want to overcome what I had been through. And that’s the first thing, is changing your mindset. If you have the mindset to to say, Oh, this sucks, I’m never going to get out of this. Oh, this is going to be the worst, then you’ll never be like me. And I’m not trying to say people should be like me. What I’m saying is I have accomplished so much since this accident, and May of this of 2025, will make eight years. And since this accident, I have downhill skied. I. I have shot archery, shot air rifle. Did rowing, rode on a tandem cycle. I’ve did power lifting. I’ve done row, I’ve done I’ve done field events. I’ve done bowling, like I’m hoping to do kayaking and surfing and sailing this year. That’s what I’m hoping to do. I’m trying to get accepted into that event. You know, I’m taking on challenges. I’ve flown across the nation here by myself. You know, like I when I say I’m out here taking on stuff, head on challenges, head on it’s to say that if I can do it, so can you? So don’t have a pity party. Figure out what the solution is. That’s how you figure things out. That’s how you get back out here. And don’t allow people to put labels on you, because that’s what they’re trying to do. They’re trying to label all of us, first and foremost, regardless of whether you’re normal or not, they want to label you somehow, you know. So if they’re going to put a label on, you make them stamp that label with something that you want to hear. He’s determined, he’s dedicated, he’s committed, you know, make him put great words on your name. You know, not. He’s pitiful. Now he’s depressed. Now he’s suicidal. You don’t want those names attached to you. You don’t want that that description, so don’t allow them to put it there. And that was how I thought I had to change my mindset and keep it optimistic. Yeah, I wasn’t going to be able to do the jobs that I had, but it’s okay. Let’s figure out what I can do. Don’t worry about what you can’t do. Figure out what you can do and capitalize on it.

 

Dan Munro  42:05

I think this will be interesting to unpack a little bit, because this obviously feels like the natural choice for you in this situation, to take on that mindset. I know people personally who are more devastated than you by far less events, shall we say, objectively, you know, there are people who get broken up with their partner and they don’t get over it for six years. Everything else, these things still see out the window, and everything you know, yeah, there are people who, you know, the jobs not exactly what they want, and they complain about it every evening. What do you think it is that this is the sort of X Factor, and it’s hard when it’s natural to you, it’s hard to answer, because it’s just so obvious to you that this is how you must interpret the situation and deal with it. What am I asking? I guess. What do you think the blind spot has? Ironically? What is the kind of missing piece that makes them not see it the way you see it, that makes them go down that road where they’re just like, you know, why me, as you’d put a poor me rather than like, what am I going to do about it? What’s the solution the people cling to what they don’t have anymore? You know? What’s the kind of error in that outlook that you overcome? Yeah,

 

Kijuan A  43:37

the human the human mindset, especially the way we’re kind of wired now, is to take the victim route. We’re quick to take that route. Why this happened to me? Why me? Why? Well, how about changing that and say, Well, why not me figure out the solutions. Because if we’re always bringing a problem to the table, guess what? It’s never happening. Nothing’s ever getting done because nothing’s being solved. So so when I had this accident, the first thing I was trying to do is figure out how to be blind. How can I? I know there are more people than me. I’m not the only person in the world that’s blind. So, so tell me what I have to do in order to learn to be blind. If you have, you know, cerebral palsy, there’s gotta be some, some way, a method of learning how to live with that. If you have autism, there has to be a method or a way of learning to live with that. If you have ADD ADHD, there has to be methods of learning to deal with that. We have Bipolar depression disorder, it has to be ways of learning to deal with it, figure it out. Because. If you’re just sitting there waiting on somebody to do it for you, guess what? You’re going to get nothing, because you have to go through these programs, just like I had to fly to Tucson, Arizona to go to my blind rehab center. I was there for two months, my family was not there. I had to learn how to use a cane. My family couldn’t teach it to me because they don’t know. None of them are blind. They don’t know how to teach me how to cook, they don’t know how to teach me how to clean. They don’t know how to teach me how to use an iPhone. Know how to teach me how to use a computer. I even learned how to do woodworking and copper tooling, like I was so impressed with myself because of the optimism and just the sure ability to Want to learn, right? You gotta want to learn because that’s the only way you’ll grow. And so that was what my whole and still is, actually, that still is my, my whole way of navigating life now. So when, when somebody is like, man, you know, I just had my friend. I hadn’t seen him in like, a year or so. Him and I just went to support one of our other friends that we graduated high school with. He has a restaurant in Charlotte, which is hour and a half, probably or more for me. And so we ride in the car, and as he’s talking to me, he’s like, man, you are just like a plethora of knowledge. Like, where do you get all this knowledge from? I said, Well, when you sit at home as much as I do, you have two things you can do. You can sit there, watch TV and just, you know, be dumb all day. Or you could do what I do, I read right? I do a lot of reading articles, blogs, anything that can make me smarter. I’m trying to grow my mind, not slow it down. I already have a brain injury, so if I stop reading, it’ll probably progress the injury. But if I keep making it and forcing it to learn, it’ll keep trying to learn and growing. For me, that’s what I needed to do. And so that was my I’m sorry. Go ahead.

 

Dan Munro  47:39

Well, I just Yeah, I mean, I totally resonate with your point of view. Like, for me, I would be frustrated with not doing something about it. It’s just the blind thing is a big deal for me. Like, if I have to get up in the night to do something, I deliberately leave the lights off and stuff to test if I could figure things out, you know, like I’m constantly testing my ability to be blank for no reason that just it’s just a random thing that I do. But

 

Kijuan A  48:07

see, that was actually a part of one of the things that happened to me, of when I started asking myself, well, why not me? I said, Well, you don’t cut on the lights when you go to the bathroom at night, when you play the drums, you sometimes you have your eyes closed. You know, you fill out a lot of things. I could play the I learned to play the keyboard after I lost my eyesight, not before, after the drums. Yes, I learned that before, but that was because I learned him in a very, very early age. I started playing drums at seven, and so I was just literally bored during the pandemic when I started learning the keyboard. Like, that’s what I and that’s what see when I get bored. I need something to do. Yeah, you know. And so instead of at that time, I wasn’t as in shape as I am now, but I was tired of lugging those drums around every day, you know, setting them up and breaking around, setting them up and breaking literally, every day. Because, you know, I was living with my grandmother, and she had a small house, or has a small house, and I didn’t, I had them set up in her living room. That was whenever she went to work, you know. So I didn’t want to leave him up and she come home like, wait, no, well, it’s gone, you know, my living room and everything. So I got something smaller, a keyboard I can, you know, slide that out of the way, and that was what I did. And man, when I tell you, people were coming to the house just to hear me play, because they were so impressed with me and how I was trying to teach myself. And then I finally got, you know, a teacher. But yeah, at first I was trying to teach myself how to play that thing.

 

Dan Munro  49:59

But yeah, I. One of the things that kind of stands out for me, I’ve seen this like, there’s a member of my family who had a stroke, and, you know, proper, sort of half paralyzed body, real stroke. And so I got familiar with stroke recovery, and there’s just such a range of how well people do after a stroke, and it’s all comes down to mindset. So people pretty much get back to 100% like, like, you would not know that they’ve had one. They get all back. Take some years, you know, heartbreaking effort required to get there. You have to do these mundane exercises all the time, hours and hours a day. Yeah, Sudoku, arm stretching, walking. There’s so much that you gotta do to get your mind back and your body back. And then the ones who don’t put in that effort, they go downhill pretty hard. And so generally, go up or down. They either, like, bounce back, or they deteriorate, depending on how much work they’re willing to do, and so on. And it’s really just in their hands, like it’s up to them how well they’re going to do after this. It’s like they say over the recovery what, what brings up for me with you is, and you might have done this anyway because you were kind of go get a guy prior to the accident, but you’ve almost over corrected in a way where you’ve done more than a regular person without this, you know, obstacle to overcome, they’ve been so So, I guess, motivated to do something good with your life as a result of that, that you’ve done more than the average person would even think of doing, you know, just list you rattled off before that was like a year worth of achievements. For some people, I mean, a lifetime’s worth of achievements. You’re right, you pop right in, like a year, and you’re one of my younger brothers is like that. Whenever I hear the list of all the things he’s done this year, I’m like, dude, take it easy. Like you got the rest. He’s learned like, three languages, and he’s got two businesses, and he’s done this and done that, because he just doesn’t have that block that people have around what the limit is, right? So I’m interested to hear, like, philosophically speaking, what your thoughts are on limits, because a lot of people the judgmental mind they would look at you, hear your situation and think he’s limited, but then as they look at the list of what you do on an average day or year, you’re actually behaviorally less limited than they appear to be, you know. So what are your thoughts on the truth around the limits of what’s possible for a human?

 

Kijuan A  52:41

Limits are what we make them. I’m gonna say that again, limits are what we make them. So, for example, I almost limited myself to not be, not being able to do the downhill skin. Oh, I’m sorry. I always I also did rock climbing, that same trip of the Dan Hill skiing, I forgot, and so I almost limited myself to doing that. And what I mean by that is I was like, There’s no way a blind person can ski is, how is that possible? I’m going to be running into everything. Somebody’s going to trample me and I’m going to run into a tree. You telling me I can get on this ski lift by myself? You telling me I can get on this slope by myself? You’re telling me I made it all the way down the slope and did not fall once. Wait, what? How? Because I didn’t think about falling, I thought about finishing. That was the difference. I wasn’t focused on falling. I was focused on finishing, ending up at the bottom. That’s why I want to go to the bottom. And I mean, when I tell you, there was this amazing moment when I did that ski trip, this little kid, he had to be, I don’t know, maybe 10 years old, and he’s on his skis, you know, and I’m standing there listening to my instructor as she’s talking to me. We had just come down the heel the slope, and she’s talking to me standing off to my right side, facing me, and I’m facing that way with my skis, or straight ahead. And then he’s coming from behind me on my left side, and I’m like, oh, yeah, okay. And then I feel something on my foot. I’m like, What? What just hit my ski? And she’s like, Oh, watch your skis. Watch your skis. He’s he’s paying he’s not paying that much attention to the skis because he’s so busy looking at the the vest that I’m wearing, I had on the orange, like, almost like a construction worker. Vest, and on the back of it, it reads, blind skier. He’s reading that. And he’s like, wait, what now he’s coming to the side of me trying to see under my, uh, my goggles I have on. You can’t see under the goggles like, I tell you, they got that phone, you know, padding around the whole thing. So now he’s looking at my eyes and everything, trying to see everything he’s like. And so he gets past me after she says, Watch your skis. And he steps off, and he’s still looking back at me, and he says, holy crap, that’s cool, man. And listen, I’ll tell you right now, I didn’t have to ski anymore that week, and I would have been okay with it, because I figured out what I was there for. I was again, I’m just showing people that you could do anything, you know. And so, man, I impress myself honestly, and this is not to like be trying to boast at all. I’m literally impressing myself, because I don’t when I’m going to do this stuff. I’m not even knowing how, how I’m going to do it, what’s going to happen. I’m just hoping for the best, and when I leave the place, I get the best. And so that’s I mean, that’s what I do, man, the limits that you place on yourself are the limits you’re going to have. So I do my best not to put any on me.

 

Dan Munro  56:38

Well, I love the way you phrased it. It sounds almost too simple, but yeah, you weren’t focused on falling down. You’re focused on getting to the bottom of the hill. It remind me, like when you do a driving test. I don’t know if it’s the same in the States, but where I did mine in New Zealand and or learning to drive, and they talk about at night when the car’s coming towards you, don’t look at their headlights. You look actually on your side of the road, because that keeps you on the road. If you look at the headlights, you consciously, like, steer into them. And so it’s like this. It’s became like a metaphor for me. I’m like, You steer into whatever you’re looking at. So if you’re looking at all the risks and the threats and the limits that you think exist. Then you’ll steer into those and you’ll hit them, and you go see, but if you’re looking at the bottom of the hill, then you’ll steer towards the bottom of the hill, and you get there. And what I love about the story as well is that not only am I blown away that you went on the fucking yourself, but the they actually have a jacket that says blind skier, like this is recurring often enough that they that they’ve got a permanent jacket for the situation. So these people out there are too scared to ski with both eyes fully functioning. Gotta remember, they’ve got a jacket that says blind skier on, and they need to use it sometimes. Like, like, one advantage is it? I don’t know if it even isn’t it, but, like, I do a bit of snowboarding, sometimes I think I’d do better if I wasn’t watching, if I wasn’t things that might hurt and worrying if I just felt, because it’s mostly a

 

Kijuan A  58:11

feeling, you know what? You know what’s funny, and I because I’ve skied with sight as well, um, it was actually easier without and I’m gonna tell you why the instructor that I just told you about, I had a headset on right there was a headset on my my my left ear, and a mic, like a boom mic, in front of my mouth, mouth, so that her and I could communicate. So I got my helmet and everything on, but there’s this they take this, this headset onto this helmet, so that her and I could communicate. I can hear her. She can hear me with the mics, and she’s telling me how to get down a hill, and she’s skiing down backwards, alright, yep, and telling me how to do it going forward. So she’s been doing this for a long time. And so anyway, with all I am doing the entire time I’m going down this ski slope is listening. I know what I’m supposed to be doing, as far as when I turn, how to speed up, how to slow down, you know, pizza, french fry, you know, dip into the turns, lean into the turn. You know, all stand up when you want to go, like all these different things that I know about already I was doing. And the best part about it is I wasn’t thinking for myself. She was helping me think. I just had to listen, right? So I wasn’t thinking about trees, I wasn’t thinking about people. I wasn’t thinking about going off, off course. None. Of that. And then it was one video they took of me, and we went all the way down in one take. And I was like, How much further do we have? And she didn’t say anything. And then I came to a stop, and I was like, What the heck. Why did she say anything? She was like, because you’re at the bottom. I was like, Oh, I have made it all the way down. I had no clue, man. I was like, oh so cool. It was awesome, dude.

 

Dan Munro  1:00:34

Oh nice, yeah. Well, um Yeah, I think I’m going to actually need to have another talk with you

 

Kijuan A  1:00:41

at some point. Yeah, we could definitely do that. There’s definitely

 

Dan Munro  1:00:45

some more around the psychology of this that I want to dive into the philosophy. Yeah, I want to give you a chance to tell us what you got going on and tell us about your book, where people can find your stuff all that

 

Kijuan A  1:01:01

absolutely. Um, so soon, here may 3, actually, of this year, 2025 I will be hosting my own event called the will to overcome. And Will is actually an acronym that I use now. It stands for win in life’s lessons. And so I will teach you how to win in life’s lessons in order to overcome adversity or hardship. And that’s what the conference is all about. Again, that is, you know, maybe third, 2025 and I’m holding it in North Carolina. So maybe be it might be some listeners out there that are, you know, going to be in the States, for those foreigners? I know it’s hard. It’s gotta be a little bit of a travel. So it’s going to be a carbo North Carolina, and I’m holding it at a restaurant called La Montana restaurant. And tickets are available on eventbrite.com, and the, again, the name of it is will to overcome. So that’s one thing I have coming up. And then if you want to, you know, reach out to me, or to follow me, or have any connection with me. You can find everything on my website at Amy motivation.com that is a m, e, y, motivation.com and you can find my social media links, such as my Facebook, my Instagram, my Twitter, my LinkedIn. I have YouTube videos up there as well. The book. Don’t focus on why me is up there, the link there, and even on Apple books and audible, because I have the audio versions as well, for those who like to listen to books versus read them. And you can also book me for your own speaking engagements or conferences or events that you might have coming up on that website.

 

Dan Munro  1:02:56

Awesome. And I’ll definitely include links to all that stuff somewhere, wherever you’re watching or listening to this scroll down, you’ll find the links. I think that’ll definitely be worth checking out. And what’s next for you, man, like, obviously, you got the conference. I guess that’s the big focus for you at the moment. Yeah,

 

Kijuan A  1:03:15

yeah, yeah, no, I’m getting that prepared currently out, you know, promoting now and what else, gosh, all these podcasts I’m doing, I’m trying to promote it through that as well. But yeah, so that’s really what I’m doing now, is just, you know, speaking and letting my voice be heard. Because that’s really what matters. You know, people want to hear they can see your story, but they would love to hear it as well. You know, they don’t know the whole thing, but if I keep telling it, they’re going to know something about it. You know, who better to tell your story than you? So that’s how I treat it.

 

Dan Munro  1:03:55

Well, you know, I’ve spoken to quite a few people over similar kind of tragedy happened and they became motivational speaker type person afterwards. But I gotta say, there’s a unique point that stands out for me with you, and it’s all those things you’ve done since. It’s the things like the skiing and the traveling alone, and you know you’re going to be sailing and rock climbing like you didn’t just go straight from tragedy to motivational speaker. Sometimes it almost comes across as, I don’t know, little fake or something like, yeah. Sometimes people like,

 

Kijuan A  1:04:34

not only like, how can you motivate me? You’re not even doing Yeah.

 

Dan Munro  1:04:40

My line of work, there’s always life coaches. I’m like, shouldn’t you have a life first? Yeah? But yeah? Like, that’s awesome. You’ve actually, like, you’ve lived what you preach. That’s what stands out. Yes, the most. Yes, you’re not just making this stuff up in a hypocrite like you’ve you’ve applied the. Very things that you’re going to be talking about my experience. They’re the people you’ve got to look out for in terms of mentorship and and role models. Like, can they walk the talk? And you Right, absolutely can. That’s it. I’ve really enjoyed talking to you. Man, no shit. Like, like I said, blindness is a thing that’s been a big I don’t know, a big deal to me my whole life. Like I said, I think about it often. I walk around with my eyes closed. Sometimes I just as I don’t know one maybe I’m like predicting something that’s going to happen to me in the future. I hope not training for I don’t train for being deaf or anything like I was thinking about being blind. So, right, right,

 

Kijuan A  1:05:42

yeah, well, if that happens, you make sure you reach back out to me. Yeah, I’ll be, I’ll be your mentor.

 

Dan Munro  1:05:50

Got a tempting fate now, yeah, no, right, so I just really resonate with like. I would be like that too if I was crushing everything and then just got slapped down to zero like that, I’d be like, Fuck this. I am not going to sit around crying about I have to get back. But there has to be something

 

Kijuan A  1:06:11

telling you, man, like literally, when I say it does nothing for you to just sit there and wallow in it does nothing. I mean, you feel the worst when you’re just sitting around. Ever since I started doing stuff, I don’t want to stop doing stuff. Like, when I come back home, I’m like, oh man. Like, literally, that’s how I feel. People like, are you tired? I mean, right now, yeah, but I’m ready to go tomorrow. If you put me back on the plane, I won’t complain, you know, so I don’t, I don’t understand those people that like to just sit around and, you know, just mope. It’s not, it’s not a good feeling.

 

Dan Munro  1:06:51

I agree. I totally agree. Look, kewan, thank you so much for your time, dude, and for sharing your story and being said likewise, straight up with us. I really appreciate it, man, and I will definitely look to have you back on the show some point soon, because there’s awesome. I appreciate it so much more I want to talk to you about

 

 

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⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Pulkit K., Dentist

“I started my journey as ‘Mr. Nice Guy’. I would find it hard to rock the boat. Trying to avoid confrontation at work was leading to frustration and low self-esteem. I used to be scared to assert myself for fear of coming across as an unpleasant person. Thanks to my work with Dan, I have practiced the simple yet difficult task of expressing myself honestly. Handling confrontation is a skill I continue to get better at. It has helped me cultivate deeper and more satisfying relationships at work, and even led to me being invited to speak internationally to other professionals.”

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Emma J., Artist

“Dan helped me break through so many barriers, fears, and doubts. He allowed me to see who I really am, who I want to be, and what I am capable of. A friend recently asked me what made my dream of traveling overseas finally possible… The answer was easy: the work I’ve done with Dan. It’s no longer just wishful thinking that one day I might improve myself—it’s now an exciting reality.”

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