Intimacy & Commitment Problems? How to Overcome Avoidant Attachment (Nice Guys)
Get the free workbook guide that goes with this episode to turn information into action and results! DOWNLOAD THE FREE WORKBOOK Spotify: Apple Podcasts: Soundcloud: Amazon Music: Being “nice” still isn’t working, is it? You try to please everyone – partner, boss, friends, kids – and then secretly resent them for holding you back, Read More
You Are A Slave To Yourself

After studying psychology for over 20 years, I’ve finally formed a cohesive picture of what it means to be a human. And I think it can be best summarised in an image. The Self The man pulling the cart is the You you feel you are; call it consciousness, awareness, self, ego, identity. It goes by many names, but it’s Read More
Removing Neediness in Dating: Making it Happen VS Letting it Happen

If you want to create a great connection with someone, with the hope of forming a long-term healthy relationship, one of the most tragic and ironic twists of fate is that trying to make this happen actually prevents it! Today I want to simply define the difference between trying to make a relationship happen, versus just letting it happen. Figuring out this Read More
Why People Pleasers Can’t Relax Socially (Defensive Hypervigilance)
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Do You Believe All Women Are The Same?

To the guy who always comments… I write this post with one particular person in mind, though it is actually for any man who – for whatever reason – has come to the Red Pill / manosphere type conclusion that all women are essentially the same. (This means you believe that all women are attracted to the same traits, react Read More
Nice Guys! How to Flirt Without Being Creepy (Female Dating Coach’s Advice)
Watch the video above, listen on your favourite podcast platform below, or scroll down for the transcript. Spotify: Soundcloud: Apple Podcasts: Amazon Music: Want more from Marni? Check out her links: WingGirlMethod.com: https://winggirlmethod.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marniwinggirl Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/winggirlmethod/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marniwinggirl Twitter: https://x.com/winggirlmethod?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@marnikinrys LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marni-kinrys-6237394a From “Nice Guy” to Confident in 90 Days Being “nice” still Read More
Why Gen Z Can’t Socialize: The Problem with Being Raised by The Internet
Why Do We Doom Scroll? This problem isn’t only affecting the younger Gen Z generations – nearly every age bracket is prone to this addictive behaviour. But there’s a difference for Millennials like myself: we learned to socialize before cell-phones and the internet were even a thing. I was about 14 years old when I got my first cell phone. Read More
The 25 Boundary Scripts For People Pleasers

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The Hidden Shame That Controls People Pleasers
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Shameless: How to Stop Caring What Other People Think
Transcript 0:00 Going backup recording going awesome we’re underway cool welcome along lads and today we’re going to try and answer the impossible question how do I stop caring what other people think of me and This is-it’s kind of an ironic question because while I do believe you can significantly reduce how much thought and time and energy you Read More