Need VS Neediness: Why the difference matters

A dude emailed me the other day asking me to explain a contradiction that I’ve made. I often talk about how all emotions are okay and normal and we should experience them all, but I also say that neediness is bad and that it ruins relationships and dating and so on. It was a fair criticism, because I haven’t been Read More

Don’t always do what you’re told!

My family and I were at the park for my surprise 40th birthday party the other day, a big public park in Auckland, New Zealand. And it was the same day as the Chinese New Year Festival, so there were heaps of stalls setting up in the park for Chinese New Year. Before I got there, some official-looking people wearing Read More