Your group identity is holding you back

One thing I’ve noticed throughout my life is that any time I’ve tried to identify as being part of a group, whether it’s a big thing like being a liberal, or some little thing like being part of the cool group at my school, I’ve immediately felt compromised. It’s like I have to sacrifice something true about myself in order Read More

Stop manipulation with The Agreement Frame technique

One of my clients has a difficult manipulative boss. My client wants to confront this boss about changing his role, and he knows that his boss is going to use a couple of manipulation techniques. One thing the boss is going to do is offer all these false promises of change to quell his aggravations. This is the “delay tactic”, Read More