Finding meaning without religion

I’m seeing an unexpected surge in religious uptake these days. It seems like there’s been a counter-reaction to the recent wave of atheist commentary, whereby people originally lost faith and then came back stronger than ever. I get it. In a world that is increasingly becoming more divided, where everyone at the top seems greedy and psychopathic, and no one Read More

Introducing the Green Pill approach to dating and relationships

I’ve got a new podcast episode coming out soon about what I’m going to call the “Green Pill” approach to dating and relationships (as opposed to red pill or blue pill ideologies). I’d like to give you a quick introductory summary to the Green Pill approach (I’ve named it that because green seems the right colour to signify integrity, growth, Read More

Honesty will always attract haters

One of the elements of the work I do that’s taken me the longest to accept is the hate I receive. You might sometimes see it in the comments, and I often get private emails and messages as well. There are some people who are very upset by what I say and what I do. Sometimes it’s just trolls, dickheads Read More

Your dating checklist prevents you from finding love

One of the biggest mistakes I see people make in dating is essentially having a kind of checklist or criteria that they judge people against; a list of qualities that they hope for in an “ideal” partner. Sometimes these things are superficial, like the way they look or how much money they make, and other times they’re qualities that you Read More