Matthew Perry’s truth: Could Chandler Bing BE any more of a Nice Guy?

Matthew Perry’s new autobiography Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing is an eye-opening read. More than anything else, it gives an insight into Nice Guy Syndrome from an extreme level; that of the highly successful Performer Type of Nice Guy. Despite getting all the fame, love and wealth he could ever wish for, Perry still turned to drugs and Read More

Beware of your fantasy world

There are two realities.   The first is the actual reality that is observed by your senses. What you see, hear, smell etc. Beyond some basic interpretation in your brain, like labelling and naming, this is fundamental reality as we know it.   The second reality is what we add in our minds to the first reality. These are our Read More